Mother beat adult daughter with iron bars: don't marry at the age of 3? What about your brother's house?

What the subject said may be puzzling. What does it have to do with the house if my sister doesn't marry? In fact, the contradiction comes from the fact that my mother hates her older daughter for not marrying, and my sister asks her parents why she bought a house for her son instead of her daughter. My mother was angry, but she picked up the iron bar.

There are many friends around who are urged to get married, but have you ever heard parents curse their daughters with vicious words? A female colleague of mine was called a jinx and disaster by her parents because her brother was getting married. I have seen parents who prefer boys to girls, but I have never seen such vicious parents. My colleague was introduced later and got married soon.

as for my daughter's request for her parents to buy a house, I don't agree.

First, my parents urged me to get married, and my daughter called the police

My daughter was not married at the age of 3, and she didn't have any serious career, so Li was often dissatisfied with her daughter, and the mother and daughter often quarreled over trivial matters. As long as the mother Wang scolded her daughter a few words, she would be answered back by her daughter. On one occasion, when they were talking, they quarreled again. Li actually roared his daughter in the street. Say it again and see if I dare to cut you! ?

At ordinary times, my daughter put up with it because the other person is her own mother, but this time, Wang couldn't put up with it. ? Try cutting me! ? The furious Li saw an iron bar on the food rack, so he grabbed it and beat his daughter. The daughter escaped from her mother's beating and ran out to call the police.

When the police arrived, the mother Li and her daughter were still quarrelling, and Wang even beat her daughter in front of the police.

When my daughter saw the police coming, she said angrily. I called the police, and she hit the place where my hand was broken, with an iron bar! Back, legs, all hurt! ? ，? I want to shoot her! Used to it! ? Mother Wang did not show weakness. Your brother is getting married. You are in your thirties, and you don't care all day. You just don't agree with so many introductions. Are you going to piss me off? . ?

As a mother, Li is really a little too much, so she shouldn't hit people anyway. In fact, Li knew that her daughter had talked about a love affair before, and because she was not separated from her boyfriend, she had a shadow in her heart, but her mother didn't know that her daughter was urged to marry because she thought her parents preferred sons to daughters. Therefore, the more her daughter was urged to marry, the greater her opinion of her parents was.

second, it is unreasonable for a daughter to ask her parents to buy a house for her, just like her younger brother.

Everyone has different ideas, so we should think from each other's point of view. Parents are also considering their children's marriage, but their children also have their own ways, and the knot in their hearts needs to be solved. In fact, Li's daughter has a knot in her heart, which makes the contradiction between mother and daughter deeper and deeper.

That is, Li's restaurant business is not bad. The husband and wife bought a suite for their son with their savings as their son's wedding room, but the daughter was dissatisfied with her parents and only bought a house for her son. Li said: In our hometown, it is reasonable for parents to buy a wedding room for their son, and it is also our responsibility as parents. ?

It was also because of this incident that my daughter Lin was strongly dissatisfied. ? What she means is that we protect our son, prefer boys to girls, and buy a house for our son instead of her. ? Mother complained to everyone. Therefore, every time Li urges marriage, her daughter also uses the same excuse, saying that she wants to buy a house before getting married. Parents think that she complained because she bought a house for her brother but didn't buy it for her.

I think my daughter's request is too much. If parents have money and are willing to buy it for you, otherwise it is not easy to demand it. In fact, there is no clear answer as to whether a son and a daughter should buy a house for their daughter. Feudal parents will not buy for their daughters, but they will be more willing to buy a house if they love their daughters, so as to avoid their daughters being wronged. In fact, it depends on economic conditions.

third,? Men should be married and women should be married? It is helpless for parents to urge marriage, but it is even more distressing for men to get married and women to get married. It's an ancient saying of China people for thousands of years. In China, as long as young people reach their twenties, they begin to be questioned by their relatives. Have they found someone? When are you getting married? Girls, in particular, are said to be "yes" when they are over 25 and have no date? Old girl? Yes.

Older girls are both scared and looking forward to marriage. In fact, today's young people are puppy love, and they have realized the feeling of love very early, and even tasted the forbidden fruit early. There are many people who are only in love and are not in a hurry to get married, not to mention many who have suffered emotional setbacks and are afraid. ?

what I want to say is that age is not the key to deciding whether to get married, but that you must know why you got married and what you want through marriage. What do you need to pay in marriage? Then actively look for your partner.

Nowadays, people are also very opinionated, and they don't like traditional moral kidnapping. Parents are more distressed and helpless in urging marriage, so they are in such an embarrassing stage. Women should be considerate of their parents, open their hearts to their parents, enhance their understanding of themselves and reduce their worries and anxieties.