Decryption: Why can't Pan Jinlian be "willing to be lonely" and abide by women's morality?

Pan Jinlian has always been synonymous with * * *. No matter how much sympathy and understanding people give her, her image is always bad. For example, you can say a lot of good things about Pan Jinlian, but I want to say that you are Pan Jinlian, or that your woman is Pan Jinlian, and you are bound to be unhappy.

Pan Jinlian's tragedy originated from the legal system at that time. At that time, the legal system was not based on human rights, but on kingship, so Pan Jinlian had no human rights, let alone women's rights. The starting point of the legal system based on human rights is human, and its ultimate destination is also human. People's needs and interests are their primary concern and concern, so the concept of human rights first must run through all its principles, rules and concepts.

The legal system based on kingship, its starting point and foothold are not ordinary people, but the interests of the ruling group represented by the king or emperor. Under such a legal system, the people can only be ruled by the rulers as labor tools, and their legitimate rights and interests cannot be fully respected and protected. Under the legal system at that time, women didn't even have the right to decide their marriage and love. How can Pan Jinlian's life not be a tragic life?

Pan Jinlian exuded a distinct personality as soon as he appeared-he didn't obey the Zhang family against his will because he was rich. Aren't there many beautiful women who are rich today? Zhang Dajia is a rich man, but Pan Jinlian is not with him. She is only with the man she likes. Compared with ancient and modern times, is Pan Jinlian very valuable? You're not with me, are you? Ok, I'll take you to see Wu Dalang! Let you spend your whole life with a short, ugly and timid man. Pan Jinlian either obeys Zhang Dajia or marries Wu Dalang. Where are you going? Wei Minglun's Sichuan Opera Pan Jinlian expresses a woman's heart with lyrics:

This side is stupid and ugly,

There is a monkey in clothes.

Bitter wine on both sides,

Once you get married, you will worry for the rest of your life.

Can there be three ways to go?

Yes, just throw it into the lotus pond and it will be fine.

Pan Jinlian thought of death. When he died, everything was over, and all the troubles and pains were gone. However-

The vegetation is affectionate and the moonlight is beautiful.

As young as a flower, this is just the beginning.

Walk on the road of life again,

Bitter wine and tears swallow your throat!

How could you die? Between Zhang Dajia and Wu Dalang, she chose Wu Dalang.

Wu Da is ugly, but he is not an animal.

Giants are dark, like graves.

Better marry a dwarf,

No jackal pillow!

These arias, I heard tears in my eyes. Is it beautifying Pan Jinlian? Not at all, I think. Isn't that how novels are written? Between wealth and character, she chose character-Wu Dalang is a good man after all.

If Wu Dalang didn't have a brother like Song Wu, or Song Wu didn't appear before Pan Jinlian, what kind of woman would Pan Jinlian be? Will she have an affair in the future It's hard to say. At that time, most women married chickens and followed dogs. Starvation is a trivial matter, and love is not a necessity for women, but a luxury. How can a woman be extravagant? Just live like this. People, whether men or women, if they take living as the highest goal and live with an attitude of just living, what pain is unbearable?

Countless people in China have survived in this way through the ages. Think about it, it's terrible! Unfortunately, Song Wu appeared. This tiger hero on Jingyanggang is in sharp contrast with Pan Jinlian's husband Wu Dalang: one is a handsome man, and the other is a short man who describes lewdness; One is invincible, and the other is timid. Any woman, any woman with normal body and mind, who marries Wu Da first and then meets Wu Er, can't help but feel ups and downs. In Wei Minglun's Sichuan opera "Pan Jinlian", Pan Jinlian has a few lyrics that tell her feelings for Song Wu:

Why does the heat wave roll with him?

Why would it be so lifeless without him?

Why didn't you know Hao Jun at the beginning?

Why do you have the distinction of uncle and sister-in-law when you meet?

At this time, Pan Jinlian can have two choices: one is to abide by women's morality and be willing to be lonely; The second is to break free from bondage and pursue happiness. In the case of Pan Jinlian, most women in China at that time chose the former. But the problem is, choosing the former is really a great pain for a woman like Pan Jinlian, even for an abstinent woman.

We can imagine that one is Song Wu and the other is Wu Da, and both of them are dangling in front of your eyes. Think about it, your husband is not Song Wu, but Wu Da. How would you feel? Pan Jinlian didn't choose loneliness, which doomed her tragic life. Her love for Song Wu not only broke the rule that men and women should not have extramarital affairs, but also broke the ethical rule between uncles and sisters-in-law, which was a double crime. But she just had double sex with Song Wu. In the society at that time, this was an amazing behavior.

This behavior can be analyzed from two levels. From a rational point of view, Pan Jinlian may not think that she is justified in doing so, or she simply doesn't dare to think about how to make moral judgments about her actions. Because once she remembers it, she will get herself into deeper contradictions and pain. From the perceptual level, Pan Jinlian's desire for Song Wu has reached a very strong level, which is overwhelming. Otherwise, she wouldn't have designed the specific steps to seduce Song Wu so carefully, and she wouldn't have such naked emotional expression for Song Wu.

Reading the text carefully, we find that the whole process of Pan Jinlian seducing Song Wu is very interesting, vivid and beautiful. At first, Pan Jinlian thought it was cowardly to marry Wu Da, but at the same time, it was strange. Why does the martial arts congress have a brother like Song Wu? They were all born to their mothers. Why is there such a big gap in life? Think again, this is my love bird flying, "I don't want this karma but here it is."

After thinking about it, I began to say something half bright and half dark to Song Wu. Brother, move back to live, don't eat in the canteen in the yamen. Sister-in-law, the food I cooked is so clean and delicious! Don't come back. You have a woman outside? No, that's good! How old are you, brother? Oh, three years older than me. Sister-in-law, I married your brother, and I am very angry. If only you were at home, I would hate timid people at this time.

In addition to these languages, there are some intimate gestures, such as picking up food for Song Wu when eating at home and "handing it to him after choosing". Finally, in front of Wu Dazi, he directly asked Song Wu to move back to live. Brother, if you don't move back, isn't that a joke on your brother and sister-in-law? Pan Jinlian's words make sense, and Wu Dalang asked his brother to move back. Song Wu also agreed.

If we don't look at Water Margin from Shi Naian's point of view, but from our own point of view, and don't treat Pan Jinlian as * * * *, then we can read a lot of poems and paintings when reading the story of Pan Jinlian's formal love for Song Wu at home.

On that day, it snowed heavily. Song Wu went to the yamen to register, had breakfast with his colleagues, and came back with messy snowflakes. Wu Da went to sell baked wheat cakes, and naturally there were only Pan Jinlian and Song Wu at home. Pan Jinlian "took a sip of wine" and drank with Song Wu. There is also charcoal fire in the room to keep warm. Imagine the cold wind and snow outside the window and the hot wine brazier indoors; Is it necessary to be poetic for a young beauty with a burning emotion and an indifferent and melancholy hero and handsome boy? Lu You's "Hairpin Phoenix" rhyme can describe this scene like this:

Red crisp hands, Huang Teng wine, broken jade touching residual willow. The cold wind is evil, and the furnace flame is blazing. Although pine and cypress are interdependent, uncle and sister-in-law are separated, mo, mo, mo. Winter is still old and people are not thin, so I dare to show my heart to you. Flowers are wrong, snow has no songs. With a cavity of blood, how much blood and fire, wrong, wrong, wrong.

When Pan Jinlian and Song Wu were drinking together, it was natural to tease Song Wu with words. Among them, three sentences are the most interesting: first, "I heard an idle person say that my uncle raised a singer on the East Street in front of the county seat. Do you dare to say this? " Brother, I heard you have honey outside. Is it true?/You don't say. Second, "Uncle, you can't make a fire. I'll stir the fire with you as long as it's as hot as a brazier. " Song Wu went to poke the brazier, and Pan Jinlian said that he didn't want to, and he had to "stir the fire" with him before saying these words. The third is "If you have this heart, just eat my half glass of wine." This is the most frank confession with Song Wu after Pan Jinlian took a sip. Note that this "half glass of wine" seems to have a profound meaning, as if to say to Song Wu, don't abandon my sister-in-law as a married man.