Is it really good to always compare your own children with other people's children?

It is really bad to always compare children with other children, because when we were young, we didn't want our parents to compare us with other children. Do as you would be done by. This principle also applies to the way we treat children. I think every child is unique. Every child has his own bright spot. Sometimes children may be inferior to other children in some aspects, but their own children also have their own unique side, which is incomparable to other children. If parents focus on their children's shortcomings, then the final result can only be to enlarge their children's shortcomings infinitely, make them feel inferior more and more, and even be particularly afraid to talk to their parents. The child is really fragile and can't stand any harm, so parents must take care of her more and don't compare their children with other people's children. When I was in primary school, one of my biggest fears was that my parents would compare my own grades with those of other children during the final exam. In the eyes of parents, other people's children are always better than me, and other people's children always have advantages. But I haven't seen the bright spot in me yet. I never care about my emotions. At school, I only regard my grades as the standard of hard work, which is particularly unfair to me, so I felt particularly inferior when I was a child. Don't compare your children with other people's children, because your children won't compare you with other people's parents. If your child does the same thing as you, I believe that your status in children's hearts will be lower and lower, because there are too many excellent parents in other people's homes. We should be good at finding the bright spot in children, and enlarge this bright spot infinitely, so that children will become more and more confident. After stepping into the society, you will also feel that you are excellent and will not care about others' evaluation of yourself. Always believe that there are mountains outside the mountains and people outside, so never compare your own children with others' children.