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Analysis of Mr. Nice guy

Teacher Lu Jia:

Hello! Dear friends! Good evening, everyone!

What I want to share with you today are two other knowledge points of the original heart: breaking through the freeze and real description.

It is necessary to explain it with the help of the movie Mr. Nice guy.

Today, I saw a partner say that this film was seen several years ago.

What I want to hear more is, how do you feel after watching this movie?

What exactly did you realize in this movie?

Frankly speaking, if I had seen this movie a few years ago.

I will definitely be excited to say that this inspirational and chicken soup movie is good.

Why do you say that? Because many people don't know the true meaning of this YES.

It means accepting life

In real life, most people dare not break through themselves like Carl.

Although Carl was also in a passive state at first.

Many people will describe this inspirational YES as chicken blood.

Most people are frozen.

Most people will just daydream at first, just like Walter in "Daydreaming Housewives", and will not face their true selves.

If the dreamer opens a new chapter for our passive growth.

Well, Mr. Nice guy, this movie is the key to finding the organ that turns on the power of action for us.

Is to break through the freeze and grow in action.

From the movie, we can see that Carl also belongs to passive growth.

He changed from passively saying "yes" to treating "yes" as a magical language.

Be able to truthfully describe your true thoughts and inner needs.

Actually, it is a process from passive growth to active growth. In our minds, we call it the process of breaking through the freeze.

How to break through the freeze

Today, I'm going to introduce you to a funny law.

It is also a law that Karl used in movies.

This rule was originally summed up by picking flowers.

Reckless laws

I wrote it when I was 38.

There are always many difficulties in life. If you are torn between doing and not doing, don't deduce it repeatedly, do it at once.

Reckless people are more likely to win.

Let's look at Carl. He was not a rash person at first, even very cautious.

But what his friends told him was to do it at once and say yes to everything.

It has been suggested that many people's success comes from not thinking too much and doing what they say.

(Carl's frozen state)

Carl in the movie, at first, said no to everything.

Because of a failed marriage, he hid himself like a turtle.

Say no to everything

He refused everything.

Even his friends gave him an ultimatum.

Although the film does not show his inner entanglement.

But he has been lying, because he refused, and we can see his inner tangled state at that time.

Including the calm attitude on his face when he dreamed that he was dead and his friends came to collect the body.

In fact, we can see that Carl's heart is actually extremely scared.

When we are used to saying no, it means that you say no to life.

He refuses all communication and lives in his own world.

When you habitually say no to life

Your tangled internal friction is equivalent to closing the window of life, and you will be more and more afraid of the sunshine outside, because you will feel that even the sunshine is dazzling.

? At this time, Carl will actually fall into a strange circle of self-doubt. May I?

Will they laugh at me? Will it be awkward to meet my ex-wife, and people will ask me what to do with my marriage?

So we see that in the case of constantly strengthening "no"

Carl is in a state of complete self-isolation.

Say no to everything in life.

Because he struggled, the final conclusion was that he couldn't do it, and his life just stagnated there.

You know, once people are entangled, they can't stop.

In fact, why do we refuse many things and why do we hesitate in life?

In fact, I am afraid of bad results and things that haven't happened yet.

In fact, have you ever thought that if you don't do it, it will always be an illusion in your mind?

Without real feedback, the temptation will grow bigger and bigger, and finally you will regret it.

In order to do this, you enter a cycle of trying, feedback, correction and promotion. In the end, there is at least a half chance of not regretting.

Just like Ai Xin and I have a class.

There are so many people in class now.

If we just imagine the result and don't act, then no matter how bad or good we think, it is useless.

Because only the process can verify your guess.

So we don't have to worry about the result, but should work hard for the process.

Just like Carl did at first, just stick to it and say yes.

Without too much entanglement, his energy has been greatly improved.

Therefore, I met the woman.

This is the power of action.

Therefore, those who achieve great things do not struggle, and those who achieve great things do not hesitate.

I always think

He who hesitates about small things will hesitate about big things.

Because I've been struggling for a long time

It will form a habit.

Get used to saying no, and your life will really start.

Here, talk about this reckless law.

In fact, the core of the summary is four points.

1.? Reckless people are more likely to win.

2.? Start first, and you're halfway there.

3.? Without execution, even the perfect plan is empty talk.

4.? Master thinking is what I want to do, not what I can do.

I don't ink either.

Give you a link to the reckless law, and let us know the experience of not picking flowers.

You will know the wonders of reckless laws.

Get the CEO's reckless rule: get things done first, and you're halfway there.

Start first, and you're halfway there.

The above is the first knowledge point to share with you, breaking through the freeze.

When you feel helpless about life

Try to say yes.

Even if it is passive.

Remember the energy level diagram I mentioned to you repeatedly last time?

I say

The key to energy level transition is courage.

The key to courage lies in action.

The key to action is recklessness.

When your life hits rock bottom.

You need to be reckless

This is also what we call jumping off a cliff.

Be rescued unexpectedly from a desperate situation

At many stages of my life, I am waiting for someone or an experience.

That experience, in place, your life will be on fire.

It's like I met my heart

Meet Ai Xin, meet the doctor.

Carl met a friend who was selling posters for him.

He refused at first.

But his friend broke the window of his bank directly.

He began to become no way back.

Began to be forced to attend the party and was forced to agree.

So, when someone in your life helps you break the framework.

You should learn to appreciate him. Maybe because of him, your life has turned a new page.

In the movie, at the suggestion of a friend, Carl came to the scene of an organization called "Mr. Nice guy"

That scene is very similar to that of a super speaker.

Carl refused.

However, under the guidance of his tutor Terrence, he tried to answer every question in life in a positive way.

This small change completely changed Carl's life.

Many people in the training camp will ask me.

Teacher Lu Jia.

How on earth can I increase my energy?

I usually tell him.

Don't think about holding back big moves or panacea.

Start with the little things in life.

why

Let me ask you something.

What do you work and study for?

What are you trying to make money for?

Isn't it just to make our life better?

But we often lose ourselves on this road.

Just like an example we often talk about.

What is the purpose of buying a house?

In order to have a home.

But many people are lost.

Buy a bungalow to buy a building, sell a building to buy a villa.

Finally, I made myself anxious.

Actually, why did Carl increase his energy?

It was a small change that gave him confidence.

Don't underestimate this confidence.

This is the engine of your energy

In the workplace, it may just be an extension of the boss's affirmation.

In marriage, it may be just an approval of the husband.

In the parent-child relationship, maybe it's just a baby's sentence, I love my mother.

These little tricks can help you save energy.

In fact, the energy and love in our hearts are the same as the essence of money.

It may be rare at first.

But when it comes to primitive accumulation, that kind of energy can be compounded.

Because deep down, you already believe in life,

So why everyone's training is effective is because they focus on the little things in life.

We can see that Carl made a small change, and honor, money, opportunity and love followed.

Like Walter at home in my dream.

Although the growth of both people is passive.

But both of them have this opportunity to grow up.

Be cornered by life.

So, when you feel desperate, let yourself move.

Each of us will have such an opportunity in our life.

The second point we want to talk about is to describe it truthfully.

Learn to describe truthfully, refuse bravely, don't be a bad person, and find a balance between right and wrong.

We understand

Carl always says no.

His life is starting to get less smooth, isn't it?

This tells us the way to balance.

No method can solve all the problems.

Then only the true state of your heart.

Is what you finally want.

Saying yes doesn't mean that you become a bad person, you can only accept everything.

What we are talking about here is the acceptance of life attitude, but we will find that endless talking will have a great impact on our lives.

For example, if you can't drink, your friends have to pull you to drink.

You are afraid of affecting your feelings with your friends, so your feelings are boring.

This is not what you want, you should learn to refuse.

Learn to sort out the truth behind it and then choose what you want.

Here, let's review the threesome theory.

Said it was none of my business. It seems vulgar.

But you can't make a one-size-fits-all decision, just learn to distinguish.

You only need to be responsible for your own actions, and you don't need to pay for other people's emotions.

What do you really care about?

We saw Carl keep saying yes and finally almost broke up with his girlfriend.

In order to help you understand correctly and describe truthfully

Let me give you a review of my case last month, and all my friends in the training camp know it.

Truthful description is actually divided into two levels.

The first layer is your feeling, your body feeling.

When this happens, how do you feel physically? We should describe it truthfully, both for ourselves and for others.

For example, if your child says to you, Mom, I don't feel well, you will definitely ask him what's wrong.

How does it feel?

The second level is to clarify the truth behind it. What is the truth?

We should learn to distinguish facts.

This is where we need to train ourselves to think clearly.

I went to get the official seal last month. As a result, the staff told me that I could not get it today.

If it is you, how to deal with it (premise: the staff of the engraving department told me to get the official seal today, saying that I can engrave the seal today)

Chongqing was very hot at that time.

You and I simulate normal people's thinking and most people's subconscious reactions.

Why? Didn't you ask me to come at this time? Are you wasting my time?

Then, then the mood came.

The point is, is your mood useful?

When emotions come, why should we observe them? It is to let emotions flow through the body and let the body know this process. This is a process of internal companionship.

Our hearts are called "marks"

What is the truth in this?

The fact is that whether you are emotional or not, you can't get your official seal.

Therefore, some students are prone to go astray when describing truthfully.

Yes, the fact is that he didn't do the official seal well. He broke the contract.

Of course, it is also true that he broke the contract.

But this fact is not your fact.

You didn't cause it at all.

What we have to consider is that I caused it.

Just like my husband and I went to my mother-in-law's house for dinner this morning, I scolded him for a little thing, although I was not angry.

But I know I must have my own reasons.

I will reflect on myself.

In the process of reflection, I found that I started this thing myself.

So, self-reflection is really interesting.

These questions are really interesting because of your reflection.

So I often tell my teacher Li that you think I am so stupid. If you dispute with me again, you are not more stupid than me.

So when we describe and reflect on ourselves truthfully, we must reflect on ourselves.

At this time, your emotions are worthless.

My practice is to ask directly when I can get it and leave.

Don't waste time. If there is a contract between you, or if it does affect any losses, that is another matter.

But when dealing with these small things, our first reaction is that our habits are directly exposed.

I don't know how to stop, stop and turn my body into a racecourse.

Don't waste time, this is the same as my own principle of treating pharyngitis.

I tell you, whatever decision is right.

The point, the back, what do you want, so as not to get entangled.

Therefore, when I knew that clear thinking was so important, I began to train my thinking mode deliberately.

You will find that life will gradually become particularly bad.

Just like Carl's choice.

You choose to say yes, life is, you choose not, and your life will collapse everywhere.

finally

We need to know one thing.

Everything has its own rules.

Just like a mountain peak, there are peaks and valleys.

Dynasties change, there are ups and downs.

And we people, there are successes and failures.

Everything follows this rule.

Life is the same, as long as you move, your life will always meet a bright future.

But if you stop your life there,

Like a stopped alarm clock, passive aging.

Run towards death