What kind of experience is it to have a boyfriend with low emotional intelligence?

But you have to grow because of love.

Wen | I walk with the wind

What kind of experience is it to have a boyfriend with low emotional intelligence?

He can't accept all your emotions, even if he is angry in person, he is just silent and doesn't know how to coax you; When you are sick, he knows he can't say "drink more hot water", so he changes it to the following dialogue:

-"I have a fever, 39 degrees."

-"awesome!"

Always step on every minefield accurately and avoid all scoring points perfectly.

Can such a boyfriend be saved? Is this kind of love still to be talked about?

I want to break up, but I think it's all trivial things. It explodes every day. What I need at this time is some tips to train my boyfriend.

If you don't want to wronged yourself, just speak your mind directly.

Some girls like to let boys guess what they think.

There is a joke: The most ink-saving book in the world is Men's Understanding of Women, because all the pages in it are blank.

Don't hold back what girls have to say, express your feelings clearly, and many problems will be solved.

Ruan Ruan has been in love with her boyfriend for seven years. Once, she went to a home store and euphemistically said that she took a fancy to a sofa. As a result, the boyfriend sent the sofa to her house the next day.

Ruan Ruan vomited blood with anger because she was hinting that her boyfriend was getting married.

But in her boyfriend's view, the formula "want a sofa = want to have sex with you = want to get married" is really puzzling.

Later, Ruan Ruan burst into tears, and her boyfriend looked confused and said that you should have told me earlier. I always thought you were cool and didn't want to get married.

So, don't sulk, be sure to tell him your thoughts and hopes directly, even if you quarrel or beat him up, it's better than letting him guess you're here without saying anything.

Create the right opportunities and teach him to be a man.

When you really want your boyfriend to do something, it is better to put yourself in his shoes and create a suitable opportunity to let him know what kind of response you want him to make.

For example, Lao Qi's boyfriend likes playing games very much and sometimes forgets to answer the phone.

Old seven is a stubborn temper. He silently played a trumpet and practiced platinum for more than half a month. One day, she invited her boyfriend to open black and went to the enemy base tacitly. My boyfriend excitedly sent a circle of friends and brothers to show his love.

Old seven coquetry. If you go shopping with me like this, I will be as happy as you are now.

Since then, Lao Qi's boyfriend has been patient every time he goes shopping with her, and will also provide her with reference opinions.

Therefore, emotional commitment is mutual.

If you want something, you might as well pay it first, let him feel your pay, and then hint at what you want in return. Treat boyfriends with low emotional intelligence, just add a little routine in good faith.

Who says boys don't need coaxing?

Sometimes the boyfriend's emotional intelligence is low because he cares too much about you. Be careful, because you are afraid of saying the wrong thing. The more nervous you are, the more likely you are to make mistakes.

But who doesn't like being praised? The effect of positive encouragement is very powerful. In fact, sometimes you might as well scold him once as praise him ten times.

Once there was a very good movie, I sent a message to my boyfriend and asked him if he wanted to come. He quickly answered two words: "Yes."

So I replied, "You didn't say it was more convenient to watch it in the cinema near your home this time. I feel very happy with you. " As a result, it took him only 20 minutes to buy a ticket and pick me up at my house downstairs to go to the cinema, holding my hand and watching the whole movie.

So, there really is a little boy in the boy's heart.

When you encourage him when he is good, instead of killing him when he is wrong, he will really remember and try to be good to you.

So you see, there are no bad boyfriends, only girlfriends who don't work hard. The process of training is the process in which you gradually establish a tacit understanding.

None of us is perfect. Maybe you meet someone who has just been touched, but he doesn't know how to love you well. Give up and get along too tired. You need these tips to train him to make himself comfortable.

Of course, the premise of all this is that he is willing to love you, but sometimes he uses the wrong method. Because I am used to being honest with you, I don't shy away from my shortcomings.

But if all means have been tried and he is still indifferent, then you have to consider that he just doesn't like you that much.

Falling in love does not require others to die for you and change the whole life, but we should educate each other on some details of getting along.

You don't need to change for love, but you need to grow for love.

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