What is love rat's consistent practice?

First, say the words "like" and "love" easily without knowing each other.

Excessive enthusiasm, only through a few photos or an accidental meeting to express the promise of love and life, does not mean that you can't be attracted by appearance, nor does it mean that you don't fall in love at first sight, but if he is only interested in your appearance, he knows nothing about your inner self and has no interest, then how can he have a long-term future with you?

The second is the lack of respect and restraint for you.

Kidney walker can't wait to ask you out for a drink at night and get you drunk.

When he gets along with you, he only cares about himself, does whatever he wants, touches you and tells dirty jokes. Even if you don't like it, he won't stop. In his cognition, "I can't change it, and there is nothing to lose if I miss it."

In front of friends and brothers, face is more important than feelings. You seem to be just a tool.

And those who are sincere to you will also restrain you, because "loving someone is a self-centered process."

When you come into his life, he will seriously consider the future. You are "the same fate", and sometimes your interests will even be higher than his in his heart.

Love rat, on the other hand, just wants to get what he wants from you. Even if he pays a little, he pays very little, but he asks you to return hundreds of times. The third point is that love rat will not be responsible for you. Before starting a relationship, he will issue a series of disclaimers.

For example, "I'm busy at work, so I may not have much time to spend with you in the future." "I was badly hurt in my last job. I don't believe in love at all." "My job is to get along with many people of the opposite sex ..."

Directly throw out the problem without mentioning the solution, so as to test your bottom line and boundary and slowly induce you to compromise.

He won't openly admit his relationship with you after he has feelings with you, and will convince you with various statements.

For example, Xiu En 'ai died quickly, and I don't like people prying into my privacy or making friends.

And he can stay single on social platforms, and then he may go behind your back to find other targets, or flirt with other girls, or cheat directly. Fourthly, some love rat like to crush your value system with their own value system.

He may put himself in a very high position. In his mouth, your characteristics are boring and puzzling, and only his value system is noble and worthy of recognition.

For example, girls like a sense of ceremony, and he will deny it in a contemptuous tone. "Why do you girls like to do these fancy things? Can you do something serious ... "

He always asks you to do what he says, and his words always imply that if you don't do what he says, you either don't love him or you can't do it.

Under his guidance, you will gradually feel inferior and doubt yourself, so that he can control you. The last point is to give you fantasy, in fact, just to satisfy their selfish desires.

"I like girls like angels, and girls should be clean." They will give you an illusion by belittling other women. "You are different from other girls, and other girls are unruly."

Then he will use some obedient and obedient remarks to psychologically control you and shape you into what he wants. He doesn't care what you are.

If the boy who pursues you has the above characteristics, please be vigilant, protect yourself and don't fall into the trap of love rat.