Parents spoil their children too much. What are the same characteristics of children when they grow up?

Xiong Haizi got into the habit of remembering Xiong Haizi's littering. Parents: "Don't do this next time."

Xiong Haizi abused his pet and died. Parents: "Don't do this next time."

Xiong Haizi smashed the street lamp, and the parents said, "Just don't get caught."

Xiong Haizi is learning to hit other students. Parents: "Children are too young to be sensible, so don't argue with them."

Xiong Haizi did badly in the exam. The parents said, "Why did you do so badly in the exam? Embarrassed me (a few thousand words are omitted here) "and picked up the stick. ...

These are Xiong Haizi's daily behaviors and parents' education methods. Now there are many jokes about "Xiong Haizi" on the Internet, and some of them are even more surprising. The cultivation of Xiong Haizi is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change, and it is a long-term cumulative effect. The root cause lies in parents. The ancients said well: it is the father's fault to raise and not teach. The parents of these children are almost omnipotent like God. They try their best to satisfy their children's wishes and extend the boundaries of "home" indefinitely. Many parents are self-righteous and regard respect and trust for their children as laissez-faire and shelter for their children's various behaviors. Children simply don't feel the rules that must be followed as an ordinary person in the outside world. In the long run, Xiong Haizi was born.

Xiong Haizi, spoiled, has the characteristics of 1 since childhood, selfish and willful.

This is the most prominent feature of children in all spoiled environments. In their world, I am the only one. I amNo. 1. The world is centered on me and the world exists because of me. Possessive, he wants to be the first in anything good. Such children don't know how to share and cooperate, and after entering the society, they may become the person that everyone hates.

2. Don't respect elders and don't care about parents.

Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of our country, and it is also necessary for a quality person. People who know how to respect their elders are caring, responsible and grateful. Parents' connivance will make children lose the boundary of seniority, even lose the concept of seniority, and make them think they are your peers and dare to do everything against you. Children show disrespect for their elders from an early age, and they will not become people who respect the old and love the young when they grow up. Everyone will get old one day. If you continue to be accustomed to this, children may not even respect their parents in the future. Spoiled children, parents are always chilling, which is not the biggest failure of parents to educate their children. It is often seen on TV that a family has several children and ultimately does not support their parents. This is a living example.

3. Abnormal mentality

What must be emphasized here is that the lack of parents' family education will eventually change children's mentality, which is an intangible consequence. If these children's ambitions or desires are not realized, then they are likely to destroy beautiful things, which is the embryonic form of juvenile delinquency. On October 20th, 65438/kloc-0, a girl aged1/kloc-0 was brutally killed in Shahekou District, Dalian. She was stabbed seven times when she died, and the place where she dumped her body was only two minutes away from her home. The murderer is a boy 14 years old, Cai. This gruesome case subverts the educational cognition of Chinese people. A person's mental health is the biggest source of harm.

Conclusion: Be straight if you don't help. White sand is nirvana, and it is black. Children's first teachers are parents, who influence and educate their children with their actions. The best family education is for parents to set an example. For example, having a good habit of sorting things out, not swearing, not spitting, loving reading, not lying, and promising that children must do things and honor their parents ... These seemingly earth-shattering behaviors will have a good effect under the baptism of time and lay a solid foundation for an excellent child. I also hope that parents who spoil and spoil their children will stop this behavior as soon as possible.