Do you want to fall in love with your boss?

In the last issue of Qipa, the topic of debate was "Should the boss be listed as the object of development?" When I saw the title, I was convinced that it was definitely possible, whether it was our little girls' cherished thoughts since ancient times or our vanity that it was our charm to attract the superiors.

I have also worked in three different companies, all of which are inextricably linked with my superiors.

First job, just graduated, marketing planning by a small company, boss Sang. Sang had a telephone interview, and finally worked as a partner. During the interview, the cooperation was very tacit. People in the company always joke: "Why didn't your mulberry always come?" What's wrong with your mulberry? " In fact, at that time, Sang was always recognized at work, and I felt that a man with five big and three thick looks was actually a very gentle person, but he didn't mean love at all.

But it is undeniable that even if there is no love between men and women, different feelings will still be full. So there will always be something different in the workshop. I think it is good for me, but I am willful. I think I am sincere to the company and forget the workplace. I want to come in and out of society, simple and beautiful.

But this situation doesn't help our work much. As the boss, Sang should teach things, in fact, whether I am a person or not. On the contrary, because our relationship is particularly good, we will always be bound by what he calls "relationship" when we resign. We have resigned many times and are always retained. Finally, I left the company in a bit of a bad mood.

I haven't contacted you since, but when I came across something for the third time at work, I was advised to make a long call. Time has diluted everything, including feelings.

The second company left home and worked in Hecheng as a market in an Internet company, including KA Department. Just run a chain of customers outside every day at work. I have a good relationship with the team leader Chen, so I won't care about me. Being in the city, of course, there is a city manager, and there is one. Before I knew Tiger, Chen kept telling me about Tiger's past and became a city manager to protect his brother.

Now I can't remember my first impression of Tiger. I vaguely remember the first time I met you alone. You asked me because of the pursuit of a female subordinate. I went to a bar that night and got drunk and threw up. I can't remember how humiliating it was.

After that, we often have breakfast together, either beef noodles or KFC. We often walk together at night, on a campus. The first time I held you was on that campus. On that day, I was excited to wear adidas pants and new balaced shoes. I wanted to race with you in the evening. But who knows, I sprained my ankle badly before I entered the playground, and I laughed you to death. You said you had never seen such a funny and frustrating person. It's the first time to hold you. Oh, by the way, you are particularly afraid of physical contact with girls, presumably to avoid suspicion or something. After that, we will walk to that campus almost every night.

Later, we often went to the quiet bar to drink, play dice and play games. From the beginning, Tiger and I had another one. Gradually, we T joined in, and others joined in. There must be about six people.

more times, more words. I remember one day when you were drunk, I was sitting somewhere else quietly, and you came over to me and kissed me, which was heavy and unskilled. The next day, you sent qq to ask if you kissed me last night. I said yes, and you made fun of it.

the more times, the more jokes others make. Remember to accept the truth when you lose at dice. You accept the truth of others' questions. Do others ask you if you like me? If you had known me earlier and had no fiancee, would you have stayed with me? It was at this time that I left the meeting. But Chen Momo sent a text message: You said yes.

Being in Hecheng is my happiest day. Simple, ambiguous, the other side has no requirements for each other, gentle.

Later, Tiger went to Xiangcheng, thinking that he couldn't contact qq twice. Soon after, Tiger called me over, silly, and passed.

I really seem to have experienced a lot in Xiangcheng. You get married when you go home for the New Year, and when you get drunk, you miss me. A sense of distance after reunion; Commuters still walk together every day. Once I felt that I was very uncomfortable with such a relationship, and I found an excuse to go home for two days. In these two days, I intend to straighten out my relationship with you and stop pestering me. But two days later, I adjusted my mood and returned to Xiangcheng, but you asked me if I could wait for you for two years. I said yes by some strange coincidence.

Originally, everything was a good start, but where is life so simple? Obviously, it is more dramatic than TV series.

the CEO likes me so much that he wants me to be an assistant, but you think I'm just a child who wants to climb up and has a weak foundation. This is also the only difference between us, and it still remains today.

in the end, I can't help it. Every day, the focus of my work becomes your reprimand, and the CEO talks to me about brainwashing. Leave your job when you are too tired.

Look, all three experiences have unknown feelings with my boss, but what have I gained? Love, not counting, even if I finally keep a relationship with Tiger, but I'm not on one side and I don't know my heart, but I'm just waiting. Work, not to mention, because the boss knows your work rhythm, even if you finish the result, but they are always responsible for the process. Friends, even less, will not come. Basically, everyone in the company will say that you have problems, and they will also doubt the professionalism and responsibility of your work.

basically, companies are not allowed to fall in love, especially between superiors and subordinates. In China, the love between superiors and subordinates is mostly about men and women, which is unfair to girls. In the end, most of them will lose their love and jobs. Even if you get love, there will be great differences, and you may be separated after you are not in an industry. How ridiculous and pathetic it is. There is no bias towards girls in this society, or we are at least fair.

At last, if I have another choice, I will definitely choose not to have love with my boss.

Of course, when I typed these words, I was still thinking about him.