When you can't bear it, you might as well bear it again from the beginning.

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Many people say that I am a very gentle person. In fact, only I know, sometimes I am angry. It's just that I forbeared in time, which made many people have a good impression on me.

Sometimes I feel that forbearance can really turn hostility into friendship, which not only resolves the estrangement in my heart, but also makes the relationship between capable people warm and peaceful.

There is such a little joke.

The husband was fed up with his wife's cat and secretly threw it into the Woods far from home that day.

When he got home, he saw the cat lying at his door, sleeping soundly. The cat found its way and came back first.

The husband was very angry, stuffed the cat into the sack and went out again. He walked along the highway 10 km, got off the highway, turned left 15 km, walked northeast 12 km, walked west for 20 km, and then let the cat out of the sack.

An hour later, the husband called his wife on his mobile phone: "Hello, has the cat come home?" "Yes, I will be back five minutes ago. Dear, why haven't you come back yet? "

After listening to this, the husband said angrily to his wife, "You call that beast to answer the phone. I can't find my way home now. "

The husband in the joke can't stand the cat, but he can't find his way home and has to call for help from the cat.

Although it is a joke, it also shows that unbearable sometimes really hurts yourself.

If husbands can be merciful and tolerate the disrespectful behavior of cats, maybe they will become good friends.

02

Early this morning, the couple upstairs fell into a crazy state of war again.

It is no exaggeration to say that my eardrums are suffering from hysteria from women upstairs almost every day, but I still hold the principle of forbearance and don't want to add fuel to the fire.

Those two people upstairs are from Henan. For the record, I have absolutely no intention of discriminating against Henan people. Introduced by relatives, they came to work from their hometown and temporarily rented a house upstairs.

On weekdays, men work outside, women do housework at home and a little boy goes to primary school nearby. Looks like a nice family of three, no problem.

Although men go out early and come back late and try their best to make money, life is still very tight.

Perhaps it is for this reason that women are a little dissatisfied and can't stand it, which can be proved by her stormy roar.

A performance smoke bomb of a meal is sometimes mixed with the sound of tables and chairs falling to the ground and bowls colliding.

I guess, at this time, men only have the ability to parry, and rarely have the strength to fight back.

Sometimes, I will cover my ears and think that there may be many disappointments in this marriage. Although home is a place where love is unreasonable, the real husband and wife are not who conquers whom, but who gives in to whom.

If you can endure something, it may be a happy life.

03

Young people who have just come to work in the unit are new here, but they can't settle down and are always perfunctory about their work.

Once he took part in the invigilation of the college entrance examination in different places and sent the test paper wrong. He didn't notice it. As a result, he found that the exam had passed more than ten minutes, which caused a serious work accident.

Before the next exam, the leader who presided over the exam took him as a negative example at the exam meeting and conducted a informed criticism.

The young man may also be aware of the seriousness of the problem. Although he was dissatisfied with this, he didn't say anything. It's just a self-confessed unlucky state of mind.

After returning to the unit, at the school meeting, the principal, together with the faculty and staff of the whole school, severely criticized him as a model.

This time, he was stabbed in the trachea. One by one, his mind was out of balance, and then he made a move that he didn't need to endure anymore. He left overnight and took his girlfriend to Tibet.

The result can be imagined. Leave.

In fact, as a young man, sometimes it is understandable to do something out of line.

However, if you don't talk about principles, you will go your own way and can't stand any criticism. It is easy to put on an unbearable posture. In this complicated society, who will buy your account? Besides, it was you who made the mistake first.

04

A friend of mine who is in the hotel business once told me what happened when he graduated.

At that time, he worked as a receptionist in a big hotel.

On one occasion, the newly set fruit bowl was turned upside down by the guests in a short time.

He didn't pay attention at that time and was seen by the front office manager who happened to pass by.

The manager took him aside and gave him a good lecture, criticizing him for not knowing the service standard, being careless and absent-minded in his work. ...

At that time, he really felt wronged. After a busy morning, the manager didn't see how many dirty dishes he collected and how many cups he wiped. He only paid attention to a fruit bowl that was messed up by the guests!

At that time, his tears came down, but he held back.

After listening to his complaints, the foreman smiled at him calmly and said something that he will never forget: "The boss always only believes what he sees, and all he wants is the result."

Later, after years of training, he changed himself and now he has become a real boss.

In the face of injustice, he chose to endure, instead of leaving angrily like the young man in the above story, which led to his later career.

In life, in fact, many of us are insignificant little people. You can't expect the world to be kind to you from beginning to end and tolerate all your desires and mistakes.

Before you are really strong, as long as you don't violate your bottom line, you'd better be patient, less tit-for-tat and more worried. After a calm, it may be another world.

There is a saying that when you can't stand it, it's better to endure it again from the beginning.

Don't you think so?

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