Being used as a spare tire, what can you do to counterattack?

I read a joke just yesterday. The content of the joke was about spare tires. It went like this. One man asked, and another man said

"Brother Xiao Leng. , Why are you willing to be a woman’s backup? Why can you successfully counterattack from the backup to the real one?”

“Erdan, you don’t know, being a backup is also a skill. ”

“Brother Xiao Leng, do you have any knowledge about being a spare tire?”

“Yes, first of all, women who have many spare tires cannot ask for them, and we cannot use them as spare tires. "Brother Xiao Leng, why can't it be used as a spare tire for a woman who has many spare tires?"

"Because there are too many spare tires for this car." It must be a broken car”

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Being a spare tire is not scary, the only fear is to become one of many spare tires. If that person has many spare tires, then give up, because it is not worth it, and because of self-love... .....

But your situation should be better. After all, you are being used as a spare tire. There are some differences between being used as a spare tire and actively being a spare tire... .

It is equivalent to taking the initiative. When you are used as a spare tire, you can be stronger and more proactive, because you must have a good relationship with that car, and you may even have a chance to become a genuine one, just because It suddenly became a spare tire for some reason. Even with that car, I never thought that you would become a spare tire...

After all, feelings are hard to talk about. There can never be too many accidents. There are many things that I have no control over. I thought of it, but I just did it. I could only say "woman" and sigh "feelings". Since I still like her, I have no choice but to be a backup...

Okay Now it’s time for “On the Self-cultivation of Spare Tires”. Being a spare tire is a very bitter thing. No one likes to be a spare tire. If there is a chance, everyone wants to become a full-time employee, right?

Many times opportunities can be fought for, but sometimes opportunities can only be waited for. There is no doubt that in relationships, the backup opportunity is to wait, waiting for loopholes in their relationship. Only then can you Take advantage of the opportunity.

So we must restrain ourselves and cultivate ourselves, be calm and guard against arrogance and impetuosity, do not take pleasure in things or feel sad about ourselves, so that we can carry the Tao with a lot of things, be peaceful and far-reaching, and then suddenly be able to realize a wave of Taoism, not to mention comprehending the way of heaven. It's actually quite fun to become a saint immediately, to break through the mortal world, etc. At that time, I don't have much feelings about love, hate, and hatred, so I don't have to worry about these things anymore, and maybe I can live a happier life... ..

It’s really hard for backup tires to stay together because they want to become a full-time partner, right? No matter what you say, you must maintain a good image of yourself. There are certain things you cannot say, and you must say them deliberately and openly. It's obviously sowing discord and fanning the flames but from her point of view, everything is for her own good. It's really embarrassing...

I have to cover myself up every day and live very tiredly. , and it is not necessarily successful. The effort and the reward are always not directly proportional. If you focus on one thing and lose the other, your mentality will inevitably be a little unbalanced.

I am unwilling to do such a thing, not only because there is no grass anywhere in the world, why should I fall in love with a flower unrequitedly, but also because I think I should be better to myself.

Nothing is irreplaceable, right? If you like her today, you can like him tomorrow. There is no one who only likes one person all the time, and there is no one who only likes one gender all the time...

Time can prove everything and love. The fragility proves the strength of feelings, proves the truth, proves falsehood, proves lies, proves the truth, everything can be proved...

Let yourself calm down for a while, wait for a while and then take a look. Do you still love her? If so, if it were me, I would choose to wait and not want to do too much...