What do men who divorce after the scandal of betraying their families think?

After the scandal of betraying his family was discovered, he neither apologized nor returned, but divorced his wife. What does such a person think?

A few days ago, I handled such a case: husband and wife have been married for many years and both run a housekeeping company. The economic conditions at home are very good, and the children have already gone to college. But once, the wife found her husband had a woman outside.

What surprised her even more was that when she ran to ask her husband why he betrayed his marriage, he not only refused to admit his mistake, apologize and return, but also threw out the words "I wanted to divorce you a long time ago" The wife is puzzled. Obviously, a person made a mistake. What qualifications does he have to ask for a divorce?

After listening to her talk, I understand her feelings very well: after her husband betrayed, he should apologize if he was found out. If he doesn't do this, forget it, and he will dare to file for divorce. Does such a man still have a conscience?

But what I want to tell you is that men divorce after betraying their marriage, some really want to divorce, and some pretend to divorce. If this is not clear, the latter solution is completely off track. The following is the real intention behind a man forcing his wife to divorce. You can have a look:

No.65438 +0, he thinks that the woman outside is true love and wants to marry her.

Some men filed for divorce after the extramarital affair was exposed, expressing their true thoughts. He thinks that his wife is not good enough, that the experience of marriage is poor, that the women outside are true love, and that they are more suitable to be together. He divorced his wife and married another woman.

Second, divorce is forced, just to give each other an explanation.

There are also men who divorce their wives and are forced by women outside. For example, he has been with each other for many years, and the other side is getting tighter and tighter, threatening him with breaking up, threatening him with reputation and so on. In order to give the other party an explanation, he asked his wife for a divorce with a coaxing and cheating attitude. In fact, he is just going through the motions and being an outsider.

Third, he wants to use divorce to suppress you and make you yield.

Of course, there are still some men who ask for divorce, in fact, in order to give their wives a "duel." He saw through your weakness that you didn't want a divorce, so as to blackmail you and force you to give in to him. At this time, the divorce is fake, and it is true to want to master the initiative of this love triangle.

So, don't be afraid in the face of husband's divorce. For our own benefit, we must calm down and analyze the real intention behind his divorce. When we know what he wants, we can prescribe the right medicine.