He is a joke to me.

In life, some people keep their mouths shut about money. Some people never talk about money. There are still some people who do not talk about money directly, but reflect their income by talking about places, jobs and careers.

Confucius said, "A gentleman is sensitive to things but cautious about words." You can do more things, but you should talk less and be careful what you say.

Judging a person depends on his criminal record, words and deeds behind him; You can tell by reading between the lines that there is something behind the words. So, as an adult, you can see money in your mouth.

First, people who constantly show off are poor.

The poet Ben Jonson said, "Language can reveal a person best. As long as you speak, I can understand. " Many people deliberately show off their wealth, hoping others can "wow". He wants to! People who are admired are rich, but they don't know that everyone is "playing dumb" and seeing through the poor, but they don't say anything.

Mencius, a philosopher in the Warring States Period, wrote a fable. There was a man in the state of Qi who went out every day and went home after eating and drinking. The man said drunkenly, "I have friends who invite me to eat and drink. They are all rich and powerful friends." One day, his wife quietly followed him to see who he was eating and drinking with. Suddenly, he found himself going directly to the cemetery and asking for sacrificial food from the sacrificial people. The wife was very disappointed and said to her family, "I didn't expect that a husband is such a person, how can he be entrusted with his life?" Say that finish, the family cried.

The ancients said: "The reason why people seek wealth is that wives and concubines are not ashamed." If a person is poor and likes to show off himself, then he will fall into the situation of "saving face and losing money" Once the money at home is used up because of "face", life will be in trouble. From a realistic point of view, showing off takes time, energy and money.

For example, in order to put gold on the face, I bought fake earrings, gold-plated headdresses and fake clothes. Although the money is not much, it is undoubtedly worse for the poor.

When showing off, I wasted countless hours. Thus missed the opportunity to struggle. As the saying goes, an inch of time is an inch of gold. In the circle of friends, people who often show off drinking, eating and traveling are not necessarily rich people, but often people who like "like"; At the party, people who talk a lot don't have any real skills, they just show off.

People are poor, they will meet for a while, and their hearts will be poor for a lifetime. Saying "I have money" from my mouth is actually a joke that "there is no silver here for 320". Second, people who talk about money at home make money. A gentleman makes money in a proper way.

Poor people who don't want to get rich are not poor people with aspirations. If you are so poor that you keep saying "I am so happy", others will think it is crazy.

How to get rich? We need to think seriously, find the right way, follow the right person, do the right thing and talk.

There is a report in CCTV, Love Couples, Play for Money 1998. Lou Juzhen of Ningbo, Zhejiang, discussed with her husband that if there is one thing, it would be nice to make money while playing.

At that time, the couple were doing non-ferrous metal business outside with an annual income of 200,000 to 300,000. As soon as the couple got together, they rented 60 mu of saline-alkali land and began to breed turtles. After all, soft-shelled turtle is a delicacy on people's table, and there is no shortage of sales. After years of trying, they found that farming is not very fun, with surprises and sadness. One day in May 2008, a heavy rain washed away the fish pond. Then, their metal business lost more than two million.

Later, the husband and wife "burned their bridges" and went to the fish pond to grow up with the turtle, groping for breeding methods, constantly improving the value of the turtle, setting up cooperatives, opening up planting business, and increasing their annual income. From then on, couples can often dance and exercise. Tu Lei, a love tutor, said, "Always remember that the economic foundation comes first. Who you love, who you love with money, you don't give money, and you don't mean it. Empty talk, nonsense, romance, fooling fools. If a man doesn't talk about money at home, he can only fight alone, because no one knows what he wants.

People who really make money often talk about money at home. On the one hand, it is to make a bottom for the family and let everyone rest assured; On the one hand, it is to win the support of family members and make the cause bigger and stronger. Of course, when talking about money, be kind and sincere, and don't argue endlessly. Good husband and wife, in difficult days, have fun in hardships; Vicious couples, in happy days, compete for money, and happiness becomes pain. Talking about money seems to be unintentional. For ordinary people, it is a gathering of strength and a bond to get rich.

Third, people who keep silent will get rich in silence.

There is a man named Wang Yifu in Shi Shuo Xin Yu who thinks talking about money is a "dirty" thing, so he avoids talking about it.

One day, his wife Guo asked the servant to put money on his bed so that he could not get out of bed. When he woke up, he said, "Get rid of the things stuck here." The word "money" is completely closed. Judging from what Wang Yifu said, he doesn't like money. But the facts are different. His family is not poor and loves money.

There's another story: Wang Yifu's wife told her servants to pick up dung on the road. Manure can be used as fertilizer, and it can also make money in disguise. His younger brother advised, "It's wrong to send servants out to collect dung. His wife was angry and said, "My mother-in-law asked me to take care of my brother-in-law, not my brother-in-law. "My brother has nothing to say.

An important procedure for a family to get rich is "being stingy with money". Although Guo's approach seems too stingy and makes people laugh, its original intention is to make the family live better. In real life, many people like Guo. They have worked hard all their lives and saved a lot of money, but they won't say it or spend it easily. When they died, the younger generation discovered the real situation and saw the amount of deposits.

In society, people who get rich silently will not expose their money and how to make money. They avoid the topic of "showing off their wealth", although they are excellent themselves. For outsiders, "stingy is not stingy" is not important. There are several words "silence is golden, words are precious, and you can keep your mouth shut", all of which can reflect the method of "say less and do more" to get rich. It's a curse to talk too much. It's better to lower your head and work. If you do things well, you won't earn a thousand dollars, but at least you can earn ten dollars, which is many times better than bragging.

There is a saying in Caigen Tan: "The mouth is the door of the heart. Shut up and let go of the real machine. The mouth is a door. If the management is not good, the money will sneak in through the door. If well managed, the family is as strong as a piggy bank.

Really rich people don't talk about money, especially in a happy family and in their inner feelings; People with bad intentions either flatter themselves or flatter the rich, or sneer at the rich and resent the society. Remember, if you say warm words, you will accumulate virtues and blessings; Say nothing, silence is better than sound.