What is a very warm sentence in Liu Ruoying's preface to Chen Shengshu? Can you help me find it?

"To you who are ninety years old" / Rene Liu

It's been a long time since I saw you. I won't ask you how you are doing, because your answer is always "Stay alive" !" In this era where "cold jokes" are not a shame, you should be considered weird if you can still insist on such humorous sarcasm.

I think even when you are ninety years old, you should still be the same as now, like a little old man who has not grown up, a little cynical, with silver hair, but still wearing shorts and slippers, thinking that you are wandering in the unknown. planet.

I still remember the time when you were struggling to write a book. In a small shop on Guangfu South Road, you held a pen and wrote down word by word with a pot of tea and a pack of cigarettes. Then in the evening, as an assistant, I will pick you up, go to the recording studio, and help you type pieces of text into the computer... This kind of scene seems to be an old thing, and it seems to be fresh in my mind. yesterday.

Since you sent a message asking me to write a preface, I have been in panic. How should I write this? What we say between us is superfluous. Or just like you said, you will never write songs for me again because you no longer understand me. I think maybe I don’t understand you anymore. And these things that we don’t understand are actually the real understandings. However, all I ask is that if this preface can really help you sell two more books, you will also owe me a preface next time I publish a book.

Sometimes I hate why my life still has to be linked to your name, but maybe I should be grateful. Only you can think of a name like "Milk Tea". My friends came back from Tibet and said that my songs can be heard in the streets, because my compatriots on the plateau drink milk tea every day, and they praised me for the good choice of my name. (It’s cold, but it’s definitely not a joke.)

Some people pass by in your life and leave traces. Some are in bright colors, some are in gray and black and white. The strange thing is that no matter when You make people feel both extreme and vague. Having been having sex with you for a long time, I know clearly that you did it on purpose and never tired of it. People who leave you leave you because they know you did it on purpose; people who stay by your side stay because they know you are enjoying it but have no scheming.

Most people only see you as bohemian and self-centered. I can help you clarify this. If you were really just what they think, you wouldn't have been writing songs tirelessly for more than ten years. If you are really like that, it is impossible to maintain a peaceful and sweet family life for a long time. I remember one day when you were drunk and I drove you and Xiao Yanzhong home. On the way, you suddenly woke up and shouted, asking Yanzhong to go to the convenience store to buy two tea eggs and a sandwich. He asked you: "A Sheng, can you still eat it?" You replied in a daze: "My wife told me to buy breakfast for my son." That suave and unrestrained Chen Sheng disappeared, and this Chen Sheng was a bit disappointed, but this It is Chen Sheng that you should be most proud of!

You did play a lot of roles in my life. My father said that when you were in the hospital, he went to see you alone one evening, sat by the hospital bed, and only said one sentence to you: "Thank you for taking my role. You are a more competent father than me."

Your favorite question to me is: "Are you happy?" The first picture after I left New Paradise When the record was completed, I held the hot new songs for you to listen to. You on the phone said, "I don't need to listen. You just tell me, are you happy singing these songs? If you are happy, that's enough!" I know. You did it on purpose, it's an old trick. But up to now, although I will inevitably do some compromising things at work, I can only sing. I will keep Master's words in mind.

You said that big trees have to meet each other in the sky to be interesting. At that time, you meant that I am still a small seedling, don’t always cling to you, I have to learn to grow up by myself! Hehe, you will always have a time when you are ninety years old, and I will also have a time when I am eighty years old. At that time, I don’t expect my tree to grow taller than others, nor do I need to grow as tall as others. Just make sure that the top of my tree can see the top of your tree in the distance.