My mother-in-law asked me to take care of my husband like a son. Should I contradict her?

Your mother-in-law wants you to take care of your husband like a son. You feel bad and want to contradict her. But I advise you not to make a move yet. If you are in a hurry to refute your mother-in-law, it is likely to trigger a "mother-in-law war."

Speaking of this world, there is a "natural enemy" relationship, which is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In fact, there are some problems in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and there are very few families with good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Mother-in-law's son is your lover, and you love the same person, so in a sense, you are also a "rival in love" relationship. Many women have a bad relationship with their husbands after marriage, and the only motivation to support her to continue to maintain her marriage is her son. So she poured all her feelings into her son, obedient and coquetry to him. Most of the sons raised in this way are also giant babies.

When this "giant baby" married his daughter-in-law and became a family. As a mother-in-law, she also worries about everything, so I hope my daughter-in-law can take good care of her son like her. Begging a daughter-in-law to take care of her husband like a son.

Of course, this practice of mother-in-law is wrong. Her son, your husband, is an adult. He is a man and should be able to take care of himself. He should not only be able to take care of himself, but also learn to take care of his wife and children.

I suggest you communicate with your husband. It is right to "cultivate" your husband. After all, it is your husband who will live with you in the future, not your mother-in-law. As for your mother-in-law's ideological work, you should do it slowly. It will not take a day or two to reverse her incorrect thoughts. You can skillfully "deal with" your mother-in-law, and let your husband accompany you to "act" when necessary.

In short, remember not to "break your mouth" with your mother-in-law, and don't argue if you can. Once quarreling, it will seriously affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Moreover, this will also make your husband "caught in the middle" and it is difficult to be a man. After all, home and talent are everything!

This is my answer to this question. I hope I can help you.