Those who joke.

Everyone should have a ruler in his heart, and know that people of the opposite sex should pay attention to their discretion when getting along. If they want to be friends, they should know what to say and what to do. If you want to change from a friend to a closer relationship, there are many ambiguities in your words that are understandable.

When you get along with the opposite sex, it doesn't hurt to make some jokes according to different relationships. However, there is a well-told joke that will become true if you say it too much. Maybe it's a joke to you, but it's another story to the listener.

Some women are ignorant and love slowly. When they hear some provocative words from the opposite sex around them, they will think that men are joking.

As everyone knows, men may be joking to express their inner feelings and even achieve the goal of approaching women.

In fact, men are not so brave as women think, nor so direct as women think. Most men will be careful to test and approach when they like a woman.

He will pretend to play some jokes on women, but his heart is often hidden in these jokes. Therefore, women should understand that sometimes you think a man is just joking with you, but in fact he is "teasing" you.

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There is a little boy named Xu Li in Liu Shanshan. They grew up together. Because his parents are colleagues and both of them are only children, they have been in close contact since childhood, going to school and playing together.

Liu Shanshan wanted a brother since she was a child, but she was an only child. Xu Li is a little older than her. She often plays together. She slowly took Xu Li as her brother.

When they grew up, they actually worked in the same city. Because they grew up together, Liu Shanshan and Xu Li often go out for dinner and movies.

However, Liu Shanshan thinks Xu Li is very strange recently, and she always plays some puzzling jokes. Last time they went out to see a movie, many couples hugged each other at the end of the movie. Xu Li said to Liu Shanshan, "Why don't we just be together?" Liu Shanshan thought he wanted to fall in love and didn't think much. He asked him to introduce his girlfriend.

However, when Liu Shanshan introduced his girlfriend to him, Xu Li was a little unhappy and jokingly said, "I think you are quite suitable for me".

This time, even if Liu Shanshan is nervous again, she also feels that there is something wrong with Xu Li. She hesitated to ask Xu Li, "Do you like me?"

Xu Li smiled and said, "Do you really think what I said was just a joke?"

Xu Li's words made Liu Shanshan's heart beat faster. She realized that these words sounded like a joke from Xu Li's mouth, but in fact every word was teasing her.

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It can be seen that in fact, some of men's jokes really have a purpose, and women should never realize it.

If a man says these things to you, don't treat him as a joke easily. Behind some words is actually a sincere heart.

"You are the most beautiful." If the opposite sex has a good relationship, it will be unscrupulous to speak, and sometimes it will take some words said by the other party as a joke and miss a piece of mind in vain.

For example, when you two are walking down the street and see a beautiful woman, you ask her who looks better, and she replies "You look the best". I believe you will naturally be a joke.

But where do you know, maybe he said this from the heart and really wanted to make you happy with it?

It is said that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In the eyes of a man who likes you, no matter how ordinary you are, you are full of bright spots, which makes him unable to open his eyes.

"I think you are quite suitable for me" reminds women that if a man says "I think you are quite suitable for me", you must take it to heart. Don't forget after listening to it, thinking that he is just joking with you.

Especially if you are interested in him, don't sell yourself short, or you will miss a beautiful marriage.

In fact, men will not say a few words to women who are not interested in them, let alone be bored enough to make such jokes. Men seem to be cynical, but once they like someone, they will be extremely serious.

So, if he says this to you, he is really interested in you and flirting with you.

Just like Liu Shanshan and Xu Li, when they came out of the movie and saw many couples in pairs, Xu Li said, "Let's just make do together." .

In this case, of course, women will take men's words as jokes, but on the other hand, if men are not interested in you, they will not say such things to you.

In fact, what the man said in this case seems to be a joke. In fact, he is taking this opportunity to express his feelings for you, so that you are psychologically prepared, and it is easier for him to pick you up in the future.

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The world is true and false, and it's really chaotic.

Cao Xueqin also said: "The fake is also true, and everything is done." In many cases, the truth can be transformed anytime and anywhere, so if you think it's a joke, maybe the next second is someone else's heartfelt words.

So, woman, if you hear men say these things to you, don't classify them as jokes easily. Sometimes what seems sincere in a man's mouth is actually extremely false. It seems like a joke, but it's true.

As Freud said, "There is no such thing as a joke, all jokes are serious."

When he said to you, "I think you are quite suitable for me" and "Let's make do together", he was actually teasing you and expressing his feelings for you.

In the face of men's hints, women should also understand. If they like it, they will naturally accept it. It's natural for lovers to be well. If they don't like it, they will also use jokes to refuse, so as not to hurt each other's face and feelings.