Your friend is a "trillion-dollar billionaire", but when you borrow money, he says no. Is such a friend worth dating?

Speaking of borrowing money, I have a deep understanding. A classmate was in urgent need of money, but she didn't have enough cash at home at night, so she gave her a current passbook and went to the bank to get it tomorrow. There is also an old colleague's son who is in a hurry and needs a lot of money! I only lent her a three-year fixed withdrawal for less than a year; Also: 1997 The money borrowed from relatives has not been returned yet; I also borrowed money from friends and relatives. My husband is seriously ill in hospital and needs to pay the mortgage. When his buddy found out, he offered to let me go to his house to get it. In the evening, when I climbed to his house panting with my child in my arms, his wife told me that I just deposited it in the bank this morning and I returned empty-handed. 2 The son will be fined 6,000 yuan for job-hopping, just because his wife goes abroad to do technical services. When he left, I asked him to bring more foreign currency, for fear that he could not speak foreign languages and had no money in his pocket. So there is only 100 yuan left at home. At this time, my son had to report to other units within a time limit. He called me for 3,000 yuan. I never borrow money easily because I had the experience of borrowing money last time. Afraid of jokes, I thought of my child's uncle. At that time, it was "Ma Yun" surnamed Ma Yun. The phone call passed, and he said in detail that "his brother has returned to China, and the interest is calculated on a daily basis". [Covering his face] There is no following in these two days. I understand that he is recruiting [wit] [wit] [wit]; It was inexplicable, so I went to the flower pond in front of the building in a daze. My neighbor joked, "How beautiful my sister-in-law is! Angkor went abroad to earn a lot of money again ... ",I didn't good the spirit back to him," hi! I didn't say it earlier, take 3000 yuan from home, don't miss my son's good thing. " This is the most painful and only time I borrowed money in my life. With the enthusiastic help of neighbors, my son reported for duty on time and worked for the party. So far [yes].

Zhumen wine stinks and freezes bones, which is about the difference between the rich and the poor.

It is also his luck and blessing to have a billionaire. If you make friends with them, you want to borrow money when the group is in trouble, but he may not be willing to help them out, because it is not at the same level, small money will be given, and big money will make him doubt whether you have the ability to repay. Don't save the poor if you are in a hurry. Remember, to make friends, you have to make friends.

You think others have money, climb up and think you have a backer. Wrong. Rich people are also organized. Bill Gates partnered with Buffett. No matter who Ma Yun will associate with, it can't be insignificant.

See the situation clearly, adjust your mentality, try to make money, it is better to rely on others than on yourself, control your own lifeline, and let others envy you, not others.

Self-respect, self-respect, believe in yourself, poor friends are more reliable than rich people.

Poverty alleviation, this truth is thorough!

First, it is a feeling to lend you money. Not lending you money means people have their own reasons. It doesn't matter how much you give, you have to understand. Even if people don't trust you, or they haven't lent you money yet.

Second, oh, I'll lend it to you if I have money? Lending it to you is a friend? You don't want to talk to others without borrowing money?

There is something wrong with the definition and logic of your friend.

Sometimes borrowing money depends on people, credit and people. These are the grading standards.

I don't lend you any spare money, which means that you have some doubts in people's hearts, whether it belongs to the kind that you can borrow money.

Friendship between friends cannot be measured by money. I hope you can understand!

Friends are "trillion-dollar billionaires", and they still want to lend you money? Why should I lend it to you!

If you don't borrow it, consider whether it is worth dating. With such a big coffee friend, I believe you are not bad. Have you never refused to borrow money from others? Ann, with your attitude, it's not worth dating without borrowing money. Let's go our separate ways quickly.

If I were you, I would be afraid of having friends like you. I'm sorry, it's true. At this time, you should always leave some reserve funds for yourself. My friend asked me, I don't want to borrow any life-saving money, I want to find a way to solve it myself.

It doesn't say what you use it for or what you use it for. Don't borrow money indiscriminately. You really need money. There are many kinds of loans now. Can't you operate it yourself?

According to your attitude, do you want to rely on your friends and borrow them and not pay them back? Or do all your friends have to lend you money unconditionally and for no reason?

There are many friends who want money, and you don't lack any. Sincere friends will be lacking!

It's not that you are worth dating, the key is to be "trillion rich" or not to be with you.

I feel good about myself. I proudly think that so-and-so "billionaire" is my friend, but I don't know that borrowing money from others leads to a flat refusal. Obviously, people obviously don't think you are a good friend. Maybe you were before, but that doesn't mean you are still.

Therefore, people still have to be self-aware and know fairly well. The so-called San Qian doesn't play with the two money, that is, he has different status, identity and life circle, and there is no you in the circle, so don't rub it, and he can't rub it.

Now is a fast-paced era full of competition and the pursuit of efficiency, with obvious utilitarian tendency. Friends can have and make friends. However, batch after batch, batch after batch, after the test of time, in the end, there are only a few left, or less, or even none.

There is a saying that a family is a big undertaking. Even a rich man can't sleep at home with his wealth. Compared with ordinary people, the richest people need more capital turnover in their careers. For the staffing of a company (unit), each employee has a family to take responsibility. In today's rapidly changing competitive era, it is not easy to become rich. Don't borrow money from anyone easily unless there are special circumstances. If I work in the friend company of the richest man, I will work hard. In fact, I have been working hard for more than 20 years, and sometimes I work overtime with Dai Yue.

I'm sure you'll also consider a lot. How is your relationship? Has there been a similar money transaction before? So did you keep the agreement and pay back the money on time? What's with the loan? Is it really imminent? Or is it irrelevant? Wait, okay?

With the development of the times and technology. Some people take the opportunity to make money and get rich. With the development of the times, there are many opportunities now, but money is said to be good in major and easy to earn, but it is not easy to earn. It's also quite difficult. Then they must have made more efforts to make money than ordinary people. Nobody's money comes from the wind. Of course he has the right to borrow or not to borrow.

If you are just ordinary friends, or just know each other. Then he doesn't need to have money dealings with you at all to trouble himself. Then if you are really good friends, I think there is a reason why he won't lend you money. Is your character untrustworthy, or is he just a miser?

It depends. As mentioned above, why didn't he lend you money? If it is really our own reason, then we can still make such friends. Just correct your mistakes modestly.

Then, if it is really your friend, it is that he has a problem, that is, he is stingy and doesn't care about his friends. Then it's really understandable whether to pay or not.

Two years before I got married, I also took out loans. The other is my husband's classmate. He didn't ask my husband, but directly asked me for the money I borrowed. He borrowed a modest 3000 yuan and said he would pay me back in a month.

But after a month, there was still no reply. I called him and he said he would pay me back in a week. After a week, he said that if there was anything wrong, he would pay me back in another week. Repeat for two or three months. Because, after all, my husband's classmates couldn't pull their faces down and say malicious words, and they have been so stiff. I was really angry at that time. Not because of the amount of money, but because it is too bad.

Later, I was very helpless and asked my husband for it. I have to go two or three times before I want to come over. They saw our house hiding.

Less than two months later, she called me to borrow money. I resolutely didn't lend it to him. Then it's my character for you to say such things. Am I not worth paying? I don't think I did anything wrong. I hope I can help you.

Whether or not to borrow money and whether or not to become friends are two different things and cannot be linked together! There are thousands of reasons for borrowing money, whether you really need it, whether you have repayment ability, whether people have to give it to you, whether they have money, and whether you really have the life to repay it ..... These are all things you should consider before asking for money! If you really have a friendship with a billionaire, you are really friends and like-minded, I think you may not need to ask, and the billionaire will give it! If you are not a friend, why should I give it to you! People's money didn't come from the wind. People's money may be of great use. Instead of taking the initiative to borrow money and not paying it back, it is better to be down-to-earth and have the ability to do a lot of big things and enjoy a lot of happiness. People must not expect it ... to offend!

What is the relationship between friends? What is the boundary? This requires mutual understanding, otherwise years of friendship may be shattered in the face of reality. If your friend is rich, you must understand that just because he is rich doesn't mean you are rich, and you can't take him as your own purse. His willingness to help you is his kindness to his friends, not his obligation. So for you, try not to ask him for help all the time, and don't take his help for granted. Even if he doesn't want to help, he may have his difficulties. You should let go and don't hold grudges. Only in this way can you get respect in the eyes of your friends and be worthy of communication. Of course, from your friend's point of view, if you have the conditions, you should try your best to help your friend. Secondly, friends should know each other's friendship level. For example, in your friend's heart, his brother is more important than you. It is normal that he gives priority to helping his brother instead of you. He has done nothing wrong. With these tacit understandings, the friendship between the two sides can last forever.

Try not to have money relations between friends. This is my personal experience. In the end, friends may be fine.

A few years ago, I borrowed 50,000 yuan from my friend to do business, with an annualized rate of 20%. If I borrow a loan for one year, the interest is paid in advance. I asked for money less than six months ago. At that time, the interest of 654.38+0,000 yuan was deducted, and I deducted 5,000 yuan for half a year. My friend immediately turned against me and said that among all my friends and relatives, I have to repay 50 thousand to 45 thousand. Meeting now is like meeting an enemy.

Actually, I shouldn't hate him It was the best help for me to lend me money when I was in the most difficult time, but a man should keep his word. At that time, the annual interest was deducted at 40 thousand, not half a year! If it weren't for urgent need, who would agree with this interest? Everyone has grown up.

Including relatives, it is best to have less money. Whoever borrows it knows.

It doesn't matter if you don't need money too badly, or go to the bank for a loan.