The girl I like is straight. She often chats awkwardly, which makes me speechless. Is there any solution? I'm embarrassed across the screen.

Tip 1: Talk more in front of strangers.

When we meet acquaintances, many of us will talk about Kan Kan, but when we meet strangers, we seem to keep silent and worry that we may not speak properly. But in fact, only by constantly talking with strangers, asking them, judging their character by talking with them, and grasping their own discretion, can we avoid embarrassing conversations.

Tip 2: Pay attention to the way you speak.

When talking to others, the most taboo words are "I don't know", "I haven't been there" and "I don't understand". People who often talk like this are simply topic terminators! If we really want to say this, we can ask a simple question later, such as "and then?" "Really?" This shows that you want to continue, give the right to speak to each other and continue your chat.

Tip 3: Don't be too direct.

"I'm sorry, I was too direct." Some people are used to taking their own inflexible, speechless and hurtful words as their frankness and directness. In fact, this is a very stupid behavior. When you want to say something very direct, you must think through your brain and then say it euphemistically.

Tip 4: Appropriate compliments

When communicating with people, you can compliment them appropriately, but from the heart, don't praise them too much, just a sentence or two. Otherwise, people will think you are hypocritical, suspected of false flattery, or glib.

Tip 5: Enrich your brain's inventory.

Read more books and newspapers, and most of the conversation materials come from life. Only by constantly enriching our knowledge reserves can we talk with people in Kan Kan. Of course, it is much better to talk about news and current affairs, current affairs and politics, and people's livelihood. Compared with gossiping, you will make the other person think that you are a person with connotation and cultivation.

Secret 6: choose silence if you can't be humorous.

Some people like to use a little humor in conversation, think they are interesting and try to enliven the atmosphere, which often makes people feel embarrassed. In particular, some people will use some yellow jokes when chatting. If the other person is a very conservative and serious person, your dirty jokes will only make him think you are dirty. Don't recite other people's funny jokes, even if you can't tell them yourself. So, if you can't be humorous, then choose silence!