Does falling in love really affect your study?

For couples in the student stage, falling in love is sometimes a plus item and sometimes a minus item. In love, some people think that falling in love will waste each other a lot of time and eventually affect their studies.

Some people think that if you make a reasonable plan, falling in love will not only affect your study, but also encourage each other to become excellent. So, will falling in love affect your study?

Recently, China Youth Network Campus News Agency said, "Will falling in love affect your study?" The results show that 272 college students think it will affect their study, accounting for 51%; 257 college students think it will not affect their study, accounting for 49%.

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"Falling in love is a waste of time, and time can be used to study."

Qiu Hao, a college student in Liaoning, believes that falling in love will not affect study.

He analyzed that love is the most precious experience in everyone's youth, but it needs understanding and support in these experiences. Moreover, college students who fall in love are very young, and it is inevitable that they will be noisy. These noises will cause emotional changes, which may affect the efficiency of class.

Secondly, falling in love will definitely take up part of my thoughts and life. Originally, every day's work and study were very substantial. If you fall in love again, you will definitely divert your study time, which will affect your work and study to some extent. "This is also an important reason why high school teachers don't let love."

Qiu Hao explained that for most people, whether in high school or college, it is difficult to grasp the balance between love and work and study, but in this process, two people need constant running-in, tolerance and understanding.

There are examples around him that falling in love affects his study. His classmate fell in love, which coincided with the final exam. As his girlfriend's birthday approaches, boys have to review exams and prepare a birthday party for his girlfriend, which eventually leads to boys failing the exam. "His previous academic performance was excellent."

Through the example of classmates, Qiu Hao thinks it is difficult to find a love object that promotes and improves each other. He believes that if falling in love does not affect learning, in addition to mutual supervision and the correct guidance of friends and teachers around you, two people need to be positive and have a common goal.

Lu Tingting, a Shandong college student, also supports the view that "love will affect learning". Although she has never been in love, she feels that after falling in love, she should always take care of each other's feelings and spend time communicating every day. There will be many trivial things in life. It takes time to deal with a quarrel between two people. "I think it's a waste of time, which can be used to study."

Although her choice of falling in love will affect her study, she thinks that some students can't study well without falling in love, and some students will not affect their study if they fall in love. She analyzed that if you don't fall in love, you can't study well. It may be that you don't study hard, or there may be problems with your learning methods.

Falling in love does not affect study. It may be that two people pursue common progress and the relationship is handled properly.

Examples of both cases occur around Lu Tingting. Her classmates didn't fall in love in college, but they usually prefer to brush dramas and didn't focus on their studies, which led to poor grades. And her high school friend, who is studying in Shandong now, is still studying hard and enterprising after falling in love, and is excellent in all aspects.

"Whether falling in love affects learning, give people a score." How to fall in love without affecting study? Lu Tingting believes that the two sides should have a common goal, live in harmony in personality and try to avoid the cold war. In the time outside the usual relationship, we should squeeze out time to study and improve efficiency.