When lovers are angry, what can they say to instantly warm each other?

Some people are destined to be more sensitive and delicate than others, and they are also destined to suffer more emotional torture than others, but at the same time they have gained more emotional experiences. And a deeper understanding of life. Unfortunately, our cultural environment is not tolerant of emotions, which leads many emotional people to dislike their emotions more than others. So once you show incomprehension or even rejection of his emotions, who will give him a heavier blow and the implementation will be further deadlocked.

It is said that women are made of water, but when their girlfriends are angry, just like the lyrics "Cold ice rain hits their faces", for many men, every time their girlfriends are angry, they are always at a loss. But in fact, in intimate relationships, women are really simple creatures, because what they want most is nothing more than two things: love and security. Of course, it is more accurate to say that there is a lot of love and a lot of security.

What you need to do most is to accept his emotions and calm him down. Only when the mood is calm can we have a rational dialogue. Many people think directly in the face of the collapse of their lovers. His collapse was due to the problems they encountered. As long as they give him a solution, they can solve the so-called real problem. The more anxious they are to deal with them, the more they will push things to a difficult position.

A lot of love takes root and thrives in holding hands and hugging again and again. A lot of sense of security has become more firm and satisfied in the process of repeatedly messing with her and coaxing you. There is a very effective way: have sex with each other. The specific method is to try to be a listener, of course, not only to listen, but also to give feedback, so that the other party's emotions can be well vented. In the process of listening, the most important thing is not to listen to what the other party wants to express, but to listen to the emotions and feelings revealed by the other party in the process of expression. We should be able to understand her emotions and feelings from each other's point of view and give her feedback after listening.