Etiquette culture in tea room

During office breaks, employees often choose to chat and rest in the teahouse, so what etiquette culture does the teahouse have? I'll take you to get to know it.

The magical use of tea room:

A greenhouse for interpersonal communication

With the teahouse, women don't have to run to the bathroom under the pretext of making up often, but make an appointment for sisters to chat comfortably in the lingering fragrance of latte; With the teahouse, men don't have to smoke in the smoking room, which is harmful to health and can't enjoy the bright sunshine and leisure atmosphere in the teahouse. It seems more natural for employees to communicate with their superiors here and pretend to meet each other. Let me know if there is anything to discuss between colleagues. Come on, let's have a cup of coffee. You will understand in your heart. Although some people say that the teahouse is? Bitter water room? But it's better to pour it out than to block it in the workplace. Who has no grievances and dissatisfaction? Speaking out, it is not only easy to vent, but also can be encouraged by colleagues. Careful observation shows that the teahouse is still a place to reflect one's personality. Some people are environmentally friendly and will give up disposable paper cups and bring a mug; Some people are busy and afraid to miss an important call from a customer after going to the teahouse for a few minutes, so they come to the teahouse to indirectly fill a pot of water and drink it all day; Some people are very diligent. Although they are interns, they remember which seniors drink coffee without sugar and which seniors only drink a cup of tea, and strive to create a high-quality image of newcomers in the workplace-pay attention to observation, there are everyone in the tea room.

Channels for transmitting information

Chen, the marketing director of Volvo, said in the article "Tea Room, My Intelligence Collection Station" that the most suitable place for gossip is the tea room. He often hangs out in the teahouse, from which he can get a lot of valuable information, which is helpful to understand the current situation of other departments. Usually he is a good listener, but he will add a sentence or two when necessary. He doesn't encourage everyone to be disseminators of right and wrong, but don't do it? Don't touch the pot? Because besides doing things, interpersonal relationship with colleagues is also very important. Especially the marketing planning department, because it often needs to communicate and cooperate with other departments, so some? Gossip? More or less helpful to the implementation of the work.

Of course, the boss will also reflect his style in some details. For example, the boss of a foreign company recently put a big jar in the tea room and wrote a book? Herbal tea Everyone should pay attention to their health unless they are implicitly reminding employees of a certain flu epidemic!

For salespeople, the teahouse can also be a place to easily negotiate with customers and show corporate culture. Is this the so-called company? Soft power? Incarnation

A magic weapon for self-improvement

Nowadays, stars are popular with self-hype, and people in the workplace are also inspired by it. Mr. Liang of a foreign company has been in the company for four years, and his salary has only increased once, with a small range. By the end of the year, he deliberately complained to the boss's assistant by making tea. There is a company that wants to poach me, and I am hesitant now. The boss is very kind to me and my colleagues cooperate well, but the salary offered by that company is very attractive. What should I do? Say that finish also specifically charged her? Don't tell the boss about it! ? But the truth is? Be sure to tell the boss! ? Many things happen and his assistant finally told the boss about it, in order to win the honor and show his serious work in helping the company retain talents. Only then did the boss notice his role in the company, so he got the treatment he deserved.

Research shows that 80% of the conversations in the teahouse will reach the boss's ears. If you can use this rule, you can certainly convey what you want to say to your boss.

The embarrassing incident in the teahouse:

Hear what you shouldn't hear.

When you walked into the teahouse, you heard two colleagues talking ill of you. They are high-profile, but young and love to dress up. You stood behind them and they didn't even notice. You were angry and went out without drinking anything.

Kill skill: ignore it, and your left ear goes in and your right ear goes out. There are no perfect people in the world anyway. You can't make all your colleagues like you and approve of you. There are always people who disagree, but it's no big deal, as long as you have a clear conscience; Or talk openly with colleagues, pay attention to it, and talk calmly, with the aim of listening to opinions and solving problems. As long as you are open-minded, those colleagues who talk about you behind your back will feel embarrassed over time.

See what you shouldn't see.

You seldom go to the teahouse, but you just see CFO put his hand on the waist of the new beauty assistant in their department. Just then, you flashed out at the moment they turned around, because you knew CFO had a family. But then it spread, and the little assistant left, muttering when he left? Who is talkative? It scares you.

Killing skill: What you did was right. Since it is a secret, the parties must not want others to know. You must keep a secret, whether it is ethical or not. And you only caught a glimpse of it for a moment, and you couldn't get any facts. Of course, there is no need to clarify with the parties afterwards. Go to the teahouse and keep your eyes open and your mouth shut.

The exposure is not exposed.

Your good sister in the company is not in the same department as you, so she chats in the teahouse every day, and it is easy to relax after eating and drinking. Once you talked about your husband's recent sexual apathy, but I didn't expect someone to recommend you a andrology hospital the next day. An ambiguous smile made you extremely depressed!

Tip: The company's shuttle bus, elevator, tea room, restaurant, bathroom and other public places are actually open, which is really not suitable for private talk-can't we care about others' mouths? Unless you want to accelerate the spread of rumors. However, in the above situation, I suggest you forget it as soon as possible, because the office gossip is updated as fast as the entertainment circle, and your gossip will soon be forgotten; Of course, you can be braver, laugh at yourself and make people who want to see your jokes feel bored.

There are risks in the tea room, so be careful about gossip:

What are the minefields in the teahouse where gossip can't be touched? Office romance bears the brunt. Although people pay the highest attention to this matter, office romance is still taboo in many companies, so you'd better talk less. If it reaches the boss's ear one day and makes people part ways, you will feel guilty for it for life. There is little talk about office politics in the teahouse. When there is a phenomenon of cliques in the company, as a small clerk, you should pick up your tail, talk less and do more, and don't be a victim of office politics; Finally, it is the boss's private affairs. You can comment on the boss's clothes and makeup today, but don't gossip about his/her private affairs, for example, he/she is actually a door-to-door son-in-law who made his/her fortune through his/her wife's adult family, or she has been divorced twice but told the handsome new employee that she dreams of becoming a bride, etc.

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