I probably know why no one hurts me anymore. I am not beautiful and come from all over the world.

I probably know why I have no pain, and I am not beautiful, and I come from all over the world.

From a psychological point of view, when a person is in hospital, it is a state of great psychological and physical pressure. At this time, it is very understandable to hope to get the concern of others and the company of relatives. But I'm also very curious. Is your family not with you? Postponement is sometimes not necessarily a bad thing. Don't be so depressed. This kind of mood ... I finally know why I have no pain, I don't look beautiful enough, I don't coquetry, my voice is not sweet, and I don't drink < P >.

However, you still have to rely on yourself and be confident. Some people don't just look at their appearance. Funny joke: I finally know why no one hurts me.

Funny joke: I finally know why no one hurts me.

I'm not beautiful, I can't coquetry, my voice is not sweet, and I'm not sad.

It's like a pear flower with rain when people drink a little wine.

I drank a little fucking wine, which is like a hero's upper body in Liangshan.

The world of rich people is poor, and I dare not think about it.

Chanel spray side

Fairy water barefoot

Bird's nest flushing the toilet

Diamond hole

LV as a garbage bag

Three villas, one. She is not beautiful, why do I like her?

Because your love for her can't be replaced by appearance. I probably know why I am single. < P > Hello, the following five points lead you to be single now: < P > One reason: you always look down on people around you. < P > Both boys and girls, starting from middle school, will often complain that their peers are too naive. When I grow up, I will complain that the opposite sex in the social circle is not good enough.

You don't like the ordinary opposite sex, you don't have cool work experience, you don't earn enough, and your family is too mediocre. You think the other person is not beautiful, gentle and considerate, virtuous and interesting.

When you look up, you find that there are a group of people who are good enough, and 99.9% of them meet your needs for choosing a spouse, but it is almost impossible for them to regard you as a real communication object. Those goddesses and male gods not only inherited good genes, but also spent a lot of time to become relatively perfect people; Even if they are well-intentioned, compassionate and considerate of the sufferings of the people, it doesn't mean that they will be with you.

At this time, you have two choices: 1. Make up your mind and reinvent yourself, that is, to find the best; 2. Be realistic, start to feel the advantages of people around you, and choose the one that is most in touch with you.

I don't know how many people will choose one. Please don't make up your mind impulsively, insist on learning to broaden your horizons, lose weight, whiten and stay healthy. Nothing is easy. If you can't do it, then choose the second road. This road may not be bad. Maybe when you turn around, there will be a shy, kind and upright young man waiting for you there.

of course, the higher you go, the wider the scenery will be. It is not necessarily a mistake to be afraid of being tired and unwilling to go up. Living in peace with the status quo is also a life choice. Of course, you can also choose to be single.

just remember, how good you want, how much you have to pay.

reason 2: your fanaticism scared away everyone

a friend and met a boy at an activity. The boy looks gentle, but they haven't talked for a few words, and the boy immediately begins to flatter the girl and say many sensational words. My friend was scared to death and couldn't wait to run away on the spot.

don't think that only boys will do such a thing, and so will girls.

After catching a boy and harassing him crazily for 24 days, as long as the other party slightly neglects him (it is clear that they have no special relationship), the girls start to feel awkward with all kinds of grievances, making everything awkward and inexplicable.

Although movies and TV plays always have happy endings, in real life, you are generally regarded as a psychopath. This is why we often see that many passionate and vigorous loves always end in breakup. Because dying to live, fanaticism itself is a self-performance, which has nothing to do with "love".

The opposite sex can be chased. It's a very interesting thing, but you can't be crazy enough to exaggerate. At least you should know what kind of person the other person is before you express your good feelings.

most of the over-zealous emotions come from brain tonic, self-fantasy, and excessive lack of love. Enthusiasm will only make the other person feel scared and run away, and then you can't find the object. Being rational, logical and normal will make you look more attractive.

reason 3: I don't have enough face and heart

When I went to dinner at noon, my friend said, "There is no aesthetic education in our education." "The only discussion about beauty is how noble and beautiful the aunt who sweeps the floor is." Not to mention our admiration for "ugliness" is insane.

We think that the soul is noble, so the appearance does not need beauty, and dressing up is superficial; I like to buy good-looking famous brands, and beautiful and quality things are even more money-worship; You must like to eat kebabs and roadside stalls, and wear clothes for 3 yuan to be politically correct.

I have met many talented people, and they are not ugly.

Those ingenious and professional men and women often have good looks. Although there is no statistics of objective data, I still think that people's looks can reflect your social level and mental state; There is a positive correlation between appearance and spiritual level.

when you are clean and beautiful, the good impression you have at the first sight of others is already a good advantage. No matter how miserable your living condition is, please try your best to make yourself look good.

The hair that girls don't like seems to be attracted by boys who haven't cut their hair for nearly half a year, whose clothes are wrinkled, their shoes are dirty, and their smiles are obscene. Boys should not like girls whose bodies are in a mess and their hair and nail polish are faded.

If you want to make your life easier, if you want to be liked more by everyone, if you want to live a smooth life, if you want to live a better life, then-please try to make yourself look better. Appearance is not just natural, it can be improved by sports, reading magazines, buying clothes, going to the dentist and spending time.

reason 4: you are really lazy.

with the high development of technology, even if you hide at home every day, you can still live well. You can brush Weibo, watch American TV series, play games, and have a variety of cartoons with no moral integrity and heavy taste. Unfortunately, scientists have not yet provided a solution to falling in love at home. Please go out and socialize and find true love.

To socialize, you should first mobilize all the resources around you, such as friends of colleagues and classmates, and so on. You can make more like-minded friends through one person. Secondly, you can attend some industry gatherings, which will not only expand more career opportunities, but also meet many like-minded friends; To take a step back, there are also many interesting activities in Douban City.

If you feel that your social circle is small, you should socialize. If you feel fat, you must go swimming; If you feel that something can't work, you must move. Yelling every day, but I can't insist on anything, but it's really not cute at all.

The most common ending of lazy people is that they have no career, social circle and love objects, and they have accumulated a lot of fat and stayed in the shared room to brush the web.

Reason 5: It's even more boring than news broadcast

The common state of boring people is that their values are somewhat narrow, they like to tell some tasteless jokes, treat stupid things as funny things, and they can't get out of trivial things ... To put it bluntly, they have too little input, so they can't output.

If you often get into a long embarrassment with the opposite sex, or if others often open a topic in social situations, you either can't catch up or always say inappropriate words, then you need to seriously consider whether you input too little.

The solution to this problem is to read more books, broaden the world outlook and not be lazy. There is no shortcut, and there is no panacea.

why are you single? Do you agree with the above five points? Looking for objects and falling in love is to choose someone who likes you and you like it. However, to make others like you, don't be willful and show off your personality. You need to make yourself less bad, find the right position, and then meet like-minded people.

if you ask me, what should I do if I can't find anything to fall in love with? I think it should be eight words-see yourself clearly and act.

why am I beautiful when I was a child, but I am not beautiful when I grow up?

generally not, the bones are what they are. Appearance has a lot to do with parents' genes!

Maybe everyone is different. Why do I say Xiao Xia? Why do I say Xiao Xia? Why do I say? Why do I say Xiao Guangchang is not beautiful?

I can speak English only.

1. Why Xiaoguang have so many words although he doesn't understand English.

2,Xiaoguang know none English, But why he can say so much? Why don't I be beautiful?

Cultivate your self-confidence, self-restraint and temperament, and you will certainly become beautiful. The most important thing is to be diligent and always dress yourself up. As the saying goes, there are no ugly women, only lazy women.

I have nothing to like, I am fat, I am ugly, and my grades are average/my deskmate is the best. However, a female classmate who didn't catch up/went to the third grade became a gossip lover, and I couldn't get a word in when they were talking./My heart was full of worries, and I remembered who said: I love despair/God so much, please make me happy ...

This passage was taken from a letter written by a girl who claimed to be a "little idiot" to Yu Yujun, a young literary writer and editor-in-chief of Girls magazine. Last weekend, at the forum on "Pay attention to their reading and reading" held by the Children's Publishing House at the Shanghai Book Fair, Yu Yujun sorted out the six major troubles of the current teenagers based on 46 letters written by young readers to Girls magazine and their growing experiences learned through years of contact and exchange. The letters of "little fool" are the representative works of 46 "General Stories of Trouble". These six troubles can be divided into "three restlessness" and "three egos".

number one agitation: I want to be beautiful!

among 46 letters, this trouble became the first topic with the number of 136 letters. The most disturbing thing for students is not their studies, nor their emotions, but whether they are beautiful or not. There are more and more letters like this, and the wording is getting heavier and heavier. The "I want to be beautiful" Miss Swan complex is becoming an overwhelming collective anxiety symptom.

Boys think they must be tall, handsome, electric and cool ...

Xiaoban gnashes her teeth at people in the mirror every day and says "Go to hell" because she has a pair of blisters.

Ding Lili's feet are 38 yards and a half, like a man and a woman! She even has the idea of jumping off the balcony, so it doesn't matter if she wears a smaller size shoe and walks in pain!

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They find fault with themselves, including hair, facial features and even nails. What makes them feel "uneasy" comes from comparison, which is related to stars, magazine models and class flowers in the next class, whose eyes are bigger, whose nose is straight, whose face is white and whose figure is thinner ... < P > The second biggest agitation: 98 letters from my sister < P > are related to recognizing "brother". The word puppy love has been "out" (that is, it is eliminated), and it is my brother's turn to play strongly. This is the latest collective state of adolescent emotions. So, what does brother mean now? Girls magazine defines this as "an atypical boy between friends and love". And they themselves said, "Brother, this is a term I have always liked. Sister, this is the name I have always relied on. Brother and sister, the most beautiful relationship. "

as a girl, what are the benefits of recognizing my brother? First of all, you can have many brothers; Secondly, my brother is omnipotent and can give you a lot. When you are sad, he will let you cry on his shoulder; When you are angry, you can lose your temper with him; When you are happy, you can coquetry him.

In this way, in some campuses, it is common for brothers and sisters to recognize each other, and this "fashion" is favored by boys and girls.

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Compared with the state of puppy love, the elder brother's state makes their emotions in turmoil and agitation, which are mainly manifested as follows: 1. The ambiguity and broadness of his brother make it easier for them to invest in their emotions unconsciously.

2. vanity, recognizing more than one elder brother, or feeling cool or even causing a multi-angle relationship because the elder brother is handsome, and being in a whirlpool of feelings, they often can't treat it calmly, and as a result, many people are hurt.

3. It is still inevitable to involve gender issues, and due to competition and other reasons, it may make them steal the forbidden fruit easily.

how to deal with this emotional agitation? If love is inseparable from your own tasks, how can you get true love? And you won't even get a real life. Long live life, and love may be just a melody in life.

The third biggest agitation: the grades are worse than the sky

There are 56 letters about the pressure of study-my mother came back from the parent-teacher conference angrily with a student handbook and asked me if she had a pig?

I used to be a top student. I didn't expect to fail in a math exam once, and the teacher gave me a good scolding. Now I'm afraid of the exam and meeting the teacher, so everything is boring.

Did you hear that? They are chanting a spell: Mimi, heaven and hell, just between the lines, the line of admission!

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We can see that all kinds of examinations in schools make academic pressure and mental and physical restlessness hard to get rid of, and their endurance is fragile-often because of one exam. So how can we expect them to have the strength to overcome bigger events on the farther road in the future?

The first self: Mom and Dad are natural enemies

There are 68 letters about conflicts with parents. Sad little sugar said: I like Jay Chou, but I like his appearance and his singing tone. What did my mother say? She said, oh, it's this man with small eyes. His mouth is like olives, and he can't speak clearly. Don't play that kind of music at home in the future, it's as good as chanting! Her colleague's daughter is crazy about F4. My mother said that the little girl ran to the door of the hotel and waited for most of the night, which was really a nymphomaniac ... Before, I would tell my mother some worries, but my mother would use them to teach me a lesson later. My heart hurts. Now I don't mention anything about school or things around me. I say more and make more mistakes, say less and make fewer mistakes, and don't say it's good.

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