What to talk about on the first date (what is the perfect thing about the first date with a boy)

It is estimated that all girls have experienced dating.

So do you know how to date a boy perfectly, especially for the first time?

The first step is to dress up, in fact, in a word, try to make yourself more feminine.

Every girl has different characteristics, so I won't go into details. You can talk to Laobai if you need it.

Step two, talk. Since you, as a goddess, are lucky enough to give him the opportunity to ask you out, you don't need to show yourself too much. You have to give him a stage. Since primitive society, male creatures have been actively pursuing their spouses. If you take his job, he will still be unhappy.

What? Are you worried about ice? Don't be afraid of the cold fields!

Boys are more afraid of the cold than you are, so when it is cold, you concentrate on eating, and he will find a way. But don't play mobile phones and games, which shows that you have no patience and it is easy to dampen the enthusiasm of the other party. However, when a boy takes the initiative to share and show kindness, you should remember to cooperate. Look at him with big watery eyes to show that you are interested. Even if he tells a funny joke, why don't you laugh when people work so hard? Make full use of short sentences such as "then", "you are great", "I don't understand" and "if" to make him feel that you are a perfect listener.

After dinner, don't make any suggestions except saying thank you to him. Whether going to the movies or walking, he should mention it. You said you didn't like his proposal? Unless he shamelessly invites you to open a room, you should be in high spirits even if he takes you to play landlords. I won't come out next time.

Step three, never take the initiative to pay the bill. Taking the initiative to pay the bill on the first date is to show his sincerity in pursuing you, and it is also one of his ways to show himself. So when he invites you to dinner, he must sweet talk, say thank you and praise him as a gentleman. But you can buy drinks and pay parking fees, so that you are not a worthwhile girl, which will make him feel very intimate.

Don't make an appointment too late. As a girl with a tutor, she must go home before ten o'clock. Give him the feeling that Cinderella will change in time, he will feel that you are pure, and he will feel that he is a prince and should have you.

Of course, don't refuse him to take you home. Don't be too sensible on the first date, or he won't bother to send you home in the future. So the kind that only takes you to the bus stop is better. Don't talk foolishly downstairs for a long time, say thank you and go home quickly. There's still plenty of time. Good wine will taste better.

If you get a message from him when you get home, no matter what he says, you just have to reply "Thank you for today's movie, I like it very much", "It cost you a lot of money" and "Good night, I'm going to bed, you should go to bed early", and then you will never reply again, unless the earth is invaded by aliens and strong is brought to your head for you to send a message.

The fourth step will be a test. No matter how satisfied you are with him, don't contact him the next day. Basically, if he is interested in you, he will take the initiative to test you. If he sends a message, you should reply slowly. Don't look like you're waiting for his news by your mobile phone. Silly girl, boys are cheap. If you are too active, he will think that you are nothing more than that and immediately treat you like a big landlord as a little girl.

If he asks you to meet for the second time, you can say yes, but you have to postpone it for a few days, because your life is full, you have to work, you have to travel, you have to get together with your girlfriends, you have to learn to improve yourself ... You must not be regarded as a boring house girl at home by him.

As for being lukewarm after dating, you should know that he is not only dating you. You can wait patiently and share your beautiful photos on social platforms at most. For him, this is his anti-election moment. You don't care, he may think you are the most special.

The fifth step will be calm. If you wait for a month or so and he still hasn't heard from you, then you must be clear about the reality: among his many choices, you are not the best. Because no matter how introverted a man likes you, he will be like an ant on hot bricks, so don't give yourself too many reasons to take the initiative to find him, which is too pitiful.

Maybe you would say that he made it clear that he thought I was good. What? Do you have to listen to him tell the truth? He just hates that you are not beautiful and have a bad figure. He secretly regrets that he is blind and asks you out. Girl, start to improve yourself. If you are good enough, he is as blind as a bat.