There is an old saying in the countryside that "love flowers and pots, love daughters and love sons-in-law". Do you think what I said makes sense?

There is an old saying in the countryside that "love flowers and pots, love women and hurt son-in-law". What does this sentence mean? In fact, literally, this sentence means love me, love my dog.

In fact, there are two sentences in the middle: "Love flowers and pots, love your wife and respect your mother-in-law, love your son-in-law, and love your daughter and hurt your son-in-law". In fact, this sentence is very easy to understand. If you like this kind of flower, even the flowerpot looks good. If you love your wife, you should respect your father-in-law and mother-in-law. After all, they worked hard to raise their daughter and marry you. My wife is so excellent that my parents-in-law have made great contributions! Sometimes I hear female friends complain that her husband is unwilling to accompany her back to her parents' home, or even can't go once or twice a year, and never cares about her parents-in-law. Then I can only say that he doesn't love you enough, otherwise how could he be so cold to your parents?

Where's Mr. Aiko Inoue? This sentence is addressed to women. If you love your children, you should respect your husband. Men are good-looking and have strong self-esteem. Maybe he is incompetent and can't earn much money, but he can stand any injustice outside, but he can't stand the cynicism of his wife, because that is his closest relative! All my struggles and grievances are to give my wife and children a better life! Besides, dad is a superhero in children's hearts. You should maintain the image of dad in children's minds, and don't scold your husband in front of children. And once the marriage breaks down, who will be the most injured? Not you, not him, but the child!

What about my beloved daughter and son-in-law? This sentence is for my parents-in-law. There is a joke on the Internet that the house prices in China are all increased by the mother-in-law! Although it is only a joke, it does reflect some social phenomena. For example, the mother-in-law and the future son-in-law want a wedding room, a high-priced bride price and so on. The house is very important in the consciousness of China people, and many people think that only by owning a house can you have a home. The bride price was originally just a good bride price, but now it has become the talk of many people comparing themselves. Lao Zhang's bride price is 300,000 yuan and Lao Wang's is 500,000 yuan. ...

If the son-in-law has this ability, he will naturally give a lot of bride price. If the son-in-law doesn't have this ability, if you ask, it's not a prostitute! Even if someone gives you a bride price to get married, it will always be the knot of the man's family, and your daughter will not be hated when she gets married! Therefore, as an old father-in-law, if you want your daughter to live a good life, don't embarrass your son-in-law. As the old saying goes, a son-in-law is half a son. I'm afraid you can't bear to embarrass your son like this!