Never leave your family if you are poor. Why do some people say that? The expert's analysis is too in place.

My family was poor when I was a child. I didn't see so many flowers, but I saw the cold world early, and so did my relatives.

1, as the old saying goes: nobody asks if you are poor in downtown, but if you have money, you will be a distant relative in the mountains. If you don't believe me, look at the wine in the banquet and advise Fu Xian. There are many brothers with wine and meat, so it is difficult to meet people.

This sentence is really the truth of life, and it is not good to have no money to go to relatives' homes. With money, relatives automatically leaned over. Speaking of affection? Brothers and sisters have rivers and lakes.

2, three poor and three rich are too old, who knows whether it will rise or fall in ten years! I cherish those who like me and abandon those who don't like me.

To be a man of backbone, no matter how poor you are, you should spend your mind on your efforts. Others are sincere, and I am sincere; Don't care if others dislike you, just live your own life.

3, don't say that relatives who have no money look down on you, and parents who have no money look down on you.

4, don't care too much about the rich and the poor, the poor and the rich are just a few pieces of paper, 10 years in Hedong, 10 years in Hexi, a snap of your finger. As long as you are healthy, safe and happy every day, talents are the most important. Many times, don't everyone live their own lives? Is that red and white people go to a venue.

5, the old saying goes: people are not as poor as ghosts, and tea is not as light as water!

6. An old man told me that he had no money before and no one invited others to dinner. After several invitations, he said that he didn't have time, and he wanted to understand that others didn't have time, but he felt that spending this time and energy to accompany him to dinner was worthless and meaningless. Later, my son made a fortune, made a lot of money doing business outside, and took some relatives out to work to earn money and gain status. I feel that life depends on myself, and hugging my thighs is not reliable.

In my opinion, the poor need a strong heart and hard-working hands. It's normal for others to look down on blx and not want him. Only by working hard for yourself and always being grateful can we be happy.

First, if you need to give lucky money to your relatives, everyone knows that you should give red envelopes to the elderly and lucky money to your children during the Chinese New Year holiday. If you have no money to visit relatives, will you give lucky money? Forget about the old man. If you have no money, can you come back if someone gives your child lucky money? If people have money to give 1000? Is it appropriate for you to refund 500? Needless to say, you are embarrassed. In addition, if you really give less, relatives will definitely alienate you if they don't talk behind your back. This relative might as well leave, don't you think?

Second, just as we will unconsciously form a circle when friends get together, so will visiting relatives. You visit a relative who is richer than you. Who do you want to talk to? What will people talk to you about? The circles of the rich and the poor are different. Although you have a good impression, it depends on your strength. For example, if you live in the countryside and everyone else is in the city, do you have the same living habits as others? If I were you, if I really wanted to leave, I would say a few words and leave my things behind. This will also make you look good (but feel like a gift)

Third, now that relatives are together for the New Year, there must be entertainment. It's all about money. Do you want to play if you have no money? How dare you spoil others' fun without calling you? In addition, you may play differently from others, so you can't play and chat together. Aren't you embarrassed

When people are short of money, relatives are afraid that you will borrow money to ask them for something. Besides, relatives are actually half-relatives, and three non-relatives are "uncles' wives." I think relatives who are not related by blood are identified.

As long as I can remember, when I was a child, my family was very poor and my parents were far away. I live with my grandparents and spend my winter and summer holidays at my grandmother's house. I really realized how reasonable it is to "be poor and never leave your relatives".

In the 1980s, living conditions in rural areas were generally poor. During the summer vacation, I stayed at my grandmother's house. Once my uncle cooked meat, I passed by their house and my aunt closed the door. When I was young and ignorant, I pushed the door mainly because I wanted to eat meat, but I didn't push it away.

Another time, my grandmother was not at home on a business trip and asked me to go to my uncle's house for lunch. My aunt put away the boiled eggs at dinner. I am young but not stupid, and I know what this means. Since then, I have rarely lived in my grandmother's house.

After so many years, just two years ago, my aunt was seriously ill. It is said that it needs a lot of medical expenses, so I borrowed it from my relatives. Finally, I came to our house to tell you the general situation. I gave 5,000 yuan, symbolically, that's what I thought at the time. After all, the shadow of childhood has never been forgotten.

People lack ambition, but horses are thin and hairy. This classic is the heritage of the ancients! Nowadays people live too realistically, are almost allergic to poor words and are afraid of infection. So it's best not to ask for help or walk in the valley. Sometimes it hurts self-esteem and people's self-esteem.

Cousins used to have feelings for each other. They sat together talking and laughing and helped each other when they had difficulties. At that time, there were many children and cousins on both sides, and everyone extended a helping hand. That's a lot of power! Now almost all the difficulties have no time to prevaricate.

Now people live in a fast-paced life! There is no deep affection, no warm words of concern, no mutual pay. So, if you are poor, don't go to your relatives' house. Anyone who is willing to help will take the initiative to lend a helping hand. Sentient and righteous people will never stand by! Only after experiencing the wind and rain can you know your true family friendship and your own value! Life is ok, cherish it!