Can my wife forgive me for getting back at me for cheating (it's morbid to get back at me now)

This is a retelling of a cheating man being retaliated by his wife.

Last June, my female neighbor downstairs and I were caught in bed by my wife. The woman I cheated on was none other than a distant relative of my wife. So the moment I was caught, "my wife's world completely collapsed."

I have never loved this cheating woman, but she seduced me first. In addition, my wife 15 years of marriage has long been as light as a glass of boiled water, leaving only family ties, but no matter how I explain it to her, she just doesn't forgive me and doesn't believe what I said. I haven't contacted this woman since she found out. I do this almost every day. I go out at eight in the morning and go home at six in the evening. But my change is worthless in her eyes, and she has always maintained an indifferent attitude towards me.

Three months after I cheated on her, she even retaliated against me.

From not eating or drinking at first to ignoring me, the whole person began to change dramatically. She doesn't tell me three meals a day, not even my clothes, and she doesn't care about my parents. She used to do everything well. My parents took good care of her. Our children never let me eat any snacks. Now as long as it's family business, she won't ask anything. I'm completely a top-notch, busy at work during the day and busy at home at night. Even though my heart is full of complaints and anger about her, I just choose not to vent it in my heart. I thought that as long as I took the time to get rid of her unhappiness with my affair, we could go back to our original lives.

But three months later, she began to ask me about the division of property. For the sake of children and elderly parents, she can choose not to divorce. But I asked to transfer the second house in my name to her personal name, and also asked me to transfer 300 thousand directly to her account. If I don't agree, she will tell the world that I "betrayed her family". I looked at her face and chose to compromise. The next week, I transferred the house in my name to her name, and even the deposit of 300,000 yuan would be credited to her bank account.

I thought I did what she wanted. She will forget the past, and the real revenge for me has just begun.

After she got these things, she began to go out early and come back late, and she often wore heavy makeup. Even at home, she often hears strange men calling her. Every time I question her, "She rightfully gives it back to me", you apologize first, and you betray our marriage first. You only allow official boats to set fire and people to light lamps. Is it too lenient?

I really don't know what to do now. Speaking of divorce, my situation is worse now. She has mastered all the evidence of my infidelity and put all the screenshots of my previous chat with that woman in her mobile phone. Now I am on the wrong side. As long as I take the initiative to divorce, a large part of our house and car savings will be awarded to her. This is not the worst case. If my parents, colleagues and sons know about my infidelity. At that time, I will lose my job, my parents will treat me as an unfilial son, and my son will hate me for life! You can't imagine this happening, so you have to put up with her all the time.

"I just cheated physically, but I didn't cheat mentally." I transferred all my house savings to your name, and all the changes have been completed. Why can't you women forgive our men for "cheating occasionally"? Does an affair represent lifelong infidelity? I really don't know what to do with my wife now. Now she doesn't mention divorce. She only cares about herself and my parents every day. She doesn't do any housework. Now she only cares about my son's three meals a day and study, and treats me like a wooden head. Her morbid revenge tortured me into a human being. I really don't know what to do with this marriage. I also advise those men who want to cheat, they must manage their lower body. My present fate is your role model! Don't wait until you lose it to regret it, just like I am dying every day now. Tell you my experience, I hope you will take a warning and cherish the present marriage.

This article is relayed by the first person: I hope that after reading this gentleman's experience, everyone will know how to cherish the difficulty of marriage and grasp the present!