Is it really reasonable for parents to pay down payment for their sons?

? In fact, I think this phenomenon is very unreasonable, because it is a very shameful behavior for parents to pay down payment to their sons. This kind of behavior is feasible unless the family is extremely rich and completely worried about other problems. However, if the family conditions are slightly worse, parents will give their children a down payment. I think this is a child's unfilial behavior. After all, parents don't need to raise their children to 18 years old, and the rest of the way needs to be taken by themselves.

And independence is the foundation of standing in this society. Now many parents want to buy a house for their son even if they don't have a house. Even if they paid the down payment, they thought they had done a modest thing. In fact, I don't think it is necessary at all, because parents have raised their children for 18 years, and they have paid too much in this 18 year. There is no need for their son to continue to worry about them when he grows up. The pressure of becoming an adult. There is no need to make yourself miserable. When you are old, you should enjoy the life of the elderly and should not put too much pressure on yourself.

You should not put too much pressure on yourself. Children have grown up and need to live independently and face everything that comes next. And buying a house is the first problem they face, so as old people, we should not intervene in this matter.

Let children earn money independently, so that they will be stressed and more motivated. If you pay him the down payment directly, he will be even more unscrupulous in his life, and he only knows how to eat, drink and be merry every day without any pressure. Then this person has completely fallen.