Why "people are poor and inseparable from their relatives, and money does not return home"?

This is a very pessimistic proverb, which is not objective, but it has some truth. It is rough, not rough. Let's explain why people are too poor to go home.

This sentence first reminds me of a sentence, "When a tree falls, everyone pushes it, and everyone drinks cold water if it is unlucky. When you have no money, you have no relatives to go to. Even if you let your relatives go, you don't want others to see you down and out. Therefore, from the perspective of human dignity, we are more inclined to let others see our glamorous side, rather than waiting for others to see their jokes, or even fall down when someone is down and out. "

Don't leave your relatives if you are poor.

I am also a poor man, and I can feel this kind of psychology very well. Relatives are particularly willing to compare with each other, and relatives and friends are better off than you. Then you naturally don't want to contact them, or even be rejected by them. Among them, you can only be a green leaf to foil their Excellence. This feeling is not acceptable to everyone, nor can I, so I don't want to go to my relatives' house. Compared with them, I feel inferior, a little.

Wealth does not return to China.

When a person is rich, he doesn't want to go back to the village to meet those poor relatives. Some people think that one can succeed, but this is not necessarily true. Their success was achieved through their own efforts, and they didn't want others to touch his light. Moreover, some people have received a lot of supercilious glances at the start-up stage and asked these relatives for help, but these relatives and friends did not help him. Therefore, there is no need to go back to associate with you one day when people are developed. That's what people do.