Is it reasonable to say that similar people are suitable for playing together and complementary people grow old together?

Similar people are suitable for playing together, and complementary people are suitable for growing old together. Obviously, this sentence is for lovers, so does this sentence make sense? As the saying goes, if you believe it, you don't believe it. Only after personal experience will you believe that some words are not groundless, but well-founded!

I personally agree with this sentence and think it is very reasonable. At least I have experienced the first half, so I am qualified to evaluate the first half. Similar people are really only suitable for fun, and it is really difficult to be together. If there is a proportion, I think the probability that similar people, regardless of personality, appearance or life values, will eventually come together is lower than 1%. In short, it is a small probability event. I will tell you from my personal experience that similar people are only suitable for fun, and then explain to you the internal reasons why complementary people can stay together until they are old with the example of my good friend in high school.

I am really similar to my former partner, not only in personality and values, but also in the most important point. I think the reason why we didn't make it to the end is that we look surprisingly similar. I was born with a round face, and so was she. My eyes are single eyelid and double eyelid (and we are both left eye and right eye), so is she; My mouth is very small, and she is smaller than me; Even our fingers are equally slender. In a word, there are many amazing similarities between us. I dare to ask, if a person looks so much like you, will you feel like a family after you have been together for a long time and will never feel that kind of love again? Anyway, I have this idea, because after being with her for a long time, I will feel that I am in love with my own sister (it is not surprising that my own sister looks like me), and that feeling is very awkward, which will gradually erase my feeling of liking her and replace it with a close family relationship.

In fact, as I said above, our personalities and values are similar. For example, we all like to hold chopsticks with our left hand, we all like the songs of Mayday, and we all have bohemian and unrestrained personalities. We don't like taking medicine when we have a cold, but let ourselves get better. Even our ideas about where to live in the future are surprisingly consistent-we will settle in Dalian. These are not habits or plans that we have formed when we are not together, so there is no saying that two people will become more and more alike when they are together for a long time.

It is because there are many amazing similarities between us that we gradually become less talkative and alienated from each other, because many times when I lose my temper, her temper is hotter than mine, and when I choose to be silent, she would rather die than surrender and never break the deadlock first. We are wrong in many places. Maybe we shouldn't have been together in the first place. In that case, we won't be helpless in the future-from lovers to enemies. When we are together, we are fighting. We have proved to the world that we are determined to be together until we are old, but the final outcome tells the world that people like us are only suitable for playing together, and eventually they will be so similar in character, unwilling to accept anyone and helpless to leave!

Let me tell you something about my high school classmates. We are still deskmates, so I know him better.

My deskmate and his partner are a typical example. When they were together, they passed my witness They promised to be together for life and never part. In fact, my partner and I made the same promise in front of them. Two couples in our class started to fall in love at the same time, and the ending was really different. Now my ex-boyfriend and I have broken up for a long time, and my deskmate and her boyfriend are almost ready to get married. The reason for the different endings seems simple to me: my object and I are similar, but they are complementary. My deskmate belongs to a big boy and has a child's character. He likes to be impulsive, playful and honest, but he is honest. Such a boy can expose his personality in front of the object in an unobstructed view, and all the objects can be tolerated, just because his object happens to be the kind of mature, steady, thoughtful and caring girl. Such a complementary combination, from the beginning of love to now, has never had a quarrel or an embarrassing opportunity. They are the only couple in our class who are envied by everyone. Therefore, it is an important factor that two people can walk longer and complement each other!

When looking for a partner, look for someone who can complement each other. If two people are too similar, it is really not a good thing!