How to ask someone to help you with your conversation skills?

The first question. You should say this (I’m not asking you to learn my exact words, you just need to know the general method to understand): Brother, I’m going to trouble you about this, otherwise I really don’t know what to do, please leave me to you, brother .

Note: There are two key words. "Trouble" is the most suitable word in polite speech to ask someone to do something for you. It is intended to show respect to the other person because the other person helps you do something. There is also a key word, "please". The meaning of this word is to express to the other party that this matter is completely left to your help, and it has a strong hope that the other party will help you do it. These two keywords are what you need to use most when asking for help.

In addition, you must not tell the other party that if it fails, your job will be ruined. This will first cause psychological pressure on the other party, and secondly, it will make it easy for the other party to misunderstand that if you fail to succeed and lose your job, everything will depend on him, even though you don't mean that.

The second question. You have to go to the door with a gift and talk about it. When the other person sees your gift, he or she will think that you attach great importance to it. It also shows respect and attention to him personally, and also shows your sincerity. You don't have to worry about gifts after the other party fails. Because after listening to your matter, he will know in his heart whether it can be done and how sure he is. If he is not sure, he will not accept your gift. If he accepts it, it means that he has the ability to get things done.

As for what you mentioned about receiving a gift and then he doesn't do anything for you, that is really an extreme case. What kind of villain does it take to do this? Since you can ask him to do things, I think you should know a thing or two about his personality. Most people will do things for you if they accept the gift. I have never met anyone who doesn't.