About my first love, it is very annoying.

Let's analyze your current situation first.

First, you all want to break up, but he dumped you first, and you are not reconciled.

Second, you want him to get back together, and then you dump him. This is obviously unreliable.

Third, after you find that you can't get back together, you can only beat him by living better than him in life and study, but you hit a wall everywhere.

Isn't that right? I have to admit, you are really naive.

First of all, is breaking up a priority? Since you want to share it, he spoke for you and took the blame himself. Shouldn't you be relieved? If not, then you don't want to break up at all, you just want to make trouble. Don't you think it's an honor to dump someone? Is it humiliating to be dumped?

Second, you still want him to get back together with you and dump him. If you do, you are not only naive. Have you ever thought that you have done such a thing and left such memories? Is it good for you in the future? What will your next boyfriend think when he knows your present scenery and past events? Do you think it is worth it?

Third, you feel that you can't compare with him anywhere. I think this is entirely a matter of personal mentality. What does it mean to be better than one person? Is it better to be richer than him? Is it better to get better grades than him? That's all empty, classmate. As long as you are happy and live the life you want, you are better than him.

All in all, I think all this may be one of the reasons that bothers you. Because he is your first love and you are not his. Because of this, you feel unfair, because you think you are the first love, your investment is heavier than him, and your love this time is more valuable than him! So you don't think he is qualified to dump you. If you want to dump him, you should dump him.

Hey, it's no use talking. Wake up, classmates.