The performance of a heartless person

First, people don't look at each other, don't know how to read, and often eat dumb losses.

This is the basic skill of being a man. Modern society is complex and changeable, among which the most complex, fastest changing and most difficult to see through is the human heart. It's hard to know people's hearts. The hard part is that you can't see through a person. In fact, in life, it is a science in itself to observe people imperceptibly and invisibly. If you don't understand this science, you will often do "stupid things". Really smart people often study and think hard to avoid eating dumb losses.

Second, sharp-edged, do not understand the knowledge of low-key life.

Sharp-edged is the most effective way to stimulate people's hearts, but if you carefully observe some popular people around you, you will find that they just like to keep a low profile and hide their secrets. On the surface, they all look mediocre, but in fact, their talents are completely above you; It seems that everyone is awkward, but there are many people who can talk; It seems that everyone has no ambition, but in fact they are very talented and don't want to live too long. However, they refused to be sharp-edged. What is the reason?

There is a good saying: people are afraid of being famous and pigs are afraid of being strong. Because they have scruples, their words are sharp-edged, and it is easy to offend others. Offending others will become a resistance to their progress and a destroyer of their success; If you act with sharp edges, you will arouse the envy of others, and the envy of others will become your resistance and your destroyer. If you are surrounded by rebels or saboteurs, in this case, your foothold will be overthrown, and where can you realize your well-known wish? Therefore, being a man, sharp-edged is undoubtedly a simple performance.

Third, be outspoken and speak without restraint.

What you say may be just a casual remark, not out of your original intention, but others often take it as your real idea. Your role has changed without you realizing it. Talking without restraint is not necessarily from the heart, but it will often make others have a bad influence on you, and it is also a sign of carelessness in dealing with people.

The so-called "the knower doesn't speak, the speaker doesn't know". Really smart people will never brag to show their intelligence and wisdom, nor will they brag casually. They are often taciturn, don't show mountains and rivers, and always stand at the lowest point looking up at others and overlooking themselves. They are modest and easy-going. On the contrary, those who have no knowledge and brains will talk big and talk nonsense. This kind of person wants to show his intelligence through Kan Kan's talk, but the result is just the opposite. This kind of outspoken, itself shows his simpleton.

Fourth, I love to get to the bottom of my head and mistake stubbornness for persistence.

Some people love to get into a dead end, and they always have to compete in everything. There is no denying that persistence is a virtue in the face of difficulties and the goals we pursue. However, persistence does not mean falling into a dead end. For example, facing a big mountain on the way forward, we could have made a detour and reached our destination easily. However, some people like to go ahead and end up making a mess. The surrounding environment has changed, so we should learn to be flexible. If we stick to our point of view, we may make jokes.

Being a man, persistence is of course a good thing, but it must not go too far, otherwise it will be a dead end, that is, lack of mind. When others' opinions are really reasonable and beneficial to us, we must learn to accept them.

Fifth, there is no principle and bottom line.

Being a man, the "mind" of being a man should try to live wonderfully, but the premise is to keep the bottom line and principles of being a man, otherwise it is precisely the most careless performance. It is easy for people to give up their own bottom line and principles, but it is difficult to stick to it all the time. But it is precisely because you can persist that difficulties and pains can eliminate people with the same goals as you, and you can finally enjoy the happiness of climbing the peak.