Why do many women choose forbearance after domestic violence?

First, it may be influenced by family background.

In family of origin, mothers or people who have suffered from domestic violence for a long time will suffer from domestic violence again in their future marriages. This kind of domestic violence is not because the other party is a type of domestic violence, but because of the influence of the woman's family background, she lacked love from childhood and was abused by her family. When the woman has a conflict with the man, she will encourage him and constantly stimulate him with words, such as "Come and hit me if you have the ability", and then the domestic violence begins. This is the root cause problem, which cannot be solved by divorce.

Second: because of the children.

When a woman has children, she will become extremely strong. For the sake of children, they will put up with it. If she has no financial resources and depends on her husband to make a living, she can only bear it. They don't realize the importance of women's independence, and they don't have the strength to come out.

Third: I am afraid to face the gossip of the outside world.

When you are injured, you certainly don't want your relatives and friends to see you, hold your head up in front of them, be afraid of being laughed at, or be afraid of being looked down upon and sympathized with. They hide their pain, show people with smiles, pretend as if nothing had happened, and bear it bravely.

Fourth: threatened

It may be controlled and threatened by the man, fearing to hurt his family or other innocent people. Can only choose injustice and bear.

Whatever the reason, I hope women understand that domestic violence is like cheating, only 0 times, countless times. When you are subjected to domestic violence, you should bravely come out, otherwise, as shown in the first analysis above, it will affect the children behind you. If you suffer from domestic violence, then your child's family is a type of domestic violence, which will have an impact on his future marriage and even his children. If you don't come out, it will only be a vicious circle.

The reason why domestic violence does not divorce is that I am reluctant to part with my children, and I have been forbearing for the growth of my children. I also have this kind of forbearance around me, thinking that such forbearance is good for children. In fact, it is better to divorce early and change a lifestyle, which is not good for children and is not good for children to grow up in such a family.