Zhang Ailing said: Life is a gorgeous robe full of lice.

Modern people live too busy, too tired, too pretentious, wearing masks one by one, shuttling through the crowd, unable to see clearly the joys and sorrows, and their souls are lonely and sad! (Inscription by the author)

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20 16 the sports circle in the film and television circle is lively. First, Wang Baoqiang broke the news that his wife Ma Rong derailed agent Song Zhe; Another badminton star was exposed that his wife Xie cheated during pregnancy; Later, Chen Sicheng was exposed to derailment; A series of derailment events verified Zhang Ailing's famous saying: Life is a gorgeous robe full of lice. The life of the stars in the spotlight is like a gorgeous robe, well-made and dazzling, but unfortunately full of lice. Why don't you want this gorgeous robe because of these lice? Of course not. Clever as snow's wives welcome the prodigal son back with a broad mind, so Ma Yili's "love is easy, marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished"; Thank you for "this person who dares to take responsibility and repent, our family will support him, and our family will share joys and sorrows." Seeing this, the people who eat melons are not happy. What, what, can't they grow up and get rid of those cheating men and fight for our female compatriots? ! Tear, scold, divorce? No, it's too expensive to get hurt. These smart women all know that there is no perfect life. How can there be a perfect life? The key is what attitude we choose to face? Only by forgiving and letting go can you be reborn and have it.

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A friend asked a woman, "Where does your husband work?" "He is free. He has a piece of land on the mountain and can be self-sufficient." The woman said quietly.

This is a simple family story, and there is nothing worth writing, but when you learn that this woman's husband died of sudden illness in his forties and was buried in the mountains, do you still accept this ridiculous ridicule? And when I heard this, my heart was already in a state of turmoil.

In front of her, she is elegant in temperament and full of wealth and happiness. It is difficult for us to associate her with such words as "misfortune and suffering". You know, after her husband died, she didn't remarry, and she raised her children with great pains. It is inhuman for a woman to take care of her two children during this period, but she never returns her life with a "deep hatred" attitude. On the contrary, she tidied herself up neatly and managed her life with emotion and tone, so that her two children could live in the nourishment of love and grow up healthily.

I think that such a woman, after time and experience, will become today's philosophical and strong. Speaking of my late husband, just take it lightly with a joke! People are gone, there is no resurrection, why be sad, laugh at the pain, laugh at the rivers and lakes. This is a philosophical attitude towards life.

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A young woman is attractive, and many men pay attention to her. In the eyes of outsiders, she is the goddess, and women envy and hate her. But one day, she committed suicide by jumping off a building! The news was no less than a bomb, which blew up the whole office building and scared her colleagues who lived with her day and night. Everyone doesn't understand or accept it. How beautiful and charming is her life? How can you take this road of no return? Later, I learned that her husband was abroad all the year round, gathering less and leaving more, and the relationship between husband and wife was weak. And her daughter's adolescence is also very rebellious, which makes her eager to pursue perfection unacceptable and eventually leads to no return. And she never said that after work. How can she expose her little faults in front of everyone with high self-esteem? All misfortunes are sustained by ourselves, resisted by ourselves, and finally resisted. They got depression and embarked on the road of suicide! It really makes people sigh!

If she doesn't wrap herself so tightly on weekdays; If she is cheerful, she should communicate more with colleagues and friends. If she can bow her head, maybe her mood will be relieved and it will not lead to tragedy!

People are floating in rivers and lakes, which one is not stabbed? Why take life seriously, why take your own life seriously!

If life is beautiful, it is called wonderful. If it is bad, it is called experience!

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I remember when the Sichuan earthquake happened, there was a joke circulating on the Internet. When a Sichuanese was in the rescue, he saw a foreign rescue team around him and said, "Damn, this earthquake is really fierce, which shocked me abroad!" " ! This sentence made everyone at the scene laugh! A tragedy full of sadness made Sichuanese resolve a lot in one sentence! We can't resist natural disasters or predict man-made disasters, but we can choose to accept it with a philosophical attitude and then face it with a more positive attitude.

Writer Wang Xiaobo made friends with a pig when he jumped the queue in the countryside and wrote a unique way for a pig to walk. Reading that article, the language is relaxed and humorous, and life is childlike. What you see and feel is not the hardship and desolation of the countryside, but the childlike innocence, optimism and joy of the writer Wang Xiaobo!

Life itself is a process, an experience, an experience! People come to this world naked, no matter what ups and downs life gives you, you are just experiencing different lives and playing different roles. When the stage curtain calls, we will eventually take off our makeup and head for an unknown destination.

So, dear, let us all see the essence of life, understand the truth of living, face it with a philosophical indifference, and live the present with a smiling and cursing attitude! ! !