Prepare your own bride price and dowry to get married!

Some time ago, my colleague Xiaojin got engaged and got a car worth 1.5 million in a circle of friends. Text: It is both pressure and motivation. According to other colleagues, this is the dowry of the woman.

Unmarried, I calculated in my mind: 1.5 million. If you need so much dowry for marriage, can you take it out at home? My parents worked hard to raise me. Do I have the heart to let them spend money and work hard for their marriage? Based on 1.5 million, how long will it take me to prepare my dowry? What should I do if my boyfriend breaks up with me because of dowry problems?

Many friends broke up for bride price and dowry.

When my friend Xiao Qi got engaged, he wanted to take this opportunity to change a car and suggested that the man take this car as a bride price. They went to see the car, tested the car and chose the style. The man went home to discuss with his family, who thought the car price was too high and hoped that Xiao Qi would change it to a slightly lower price. Xiao Qi refused, thinking that with her boyfriend's family conditions, his family was not unable to afford a car at that price, but just unwilling to buy it for themselves. And if his family buys a car at that price, his family will not let him suffer, and the dowry will definitely be more generous. Neither side will compromise. Boyfriend thinks Xiao Qi doesn't understand his situation. After all, it was his parents who paid the money, not himself. Xiao Qi thinks that her boyfriend has no sincerity in getting engaged at home, and her boyfriend is too stingy to spend money on himself now. I got married and broke up with my boyfriend on the eve of engagement.

Why, we began to measure our value in each other's hearts by how much money they spent for us. I even forgot to consider whether the money came from the other party or from the other party's family. Whether the other party has the ability to pay the money. Anyway, marriage should require bride price and dowry. And the two should be equal, not too much difference!

When my friend Xiao Zhi got engaged, my parents borrowed hundreds of dollars from relatives to save face and bought the man a car. As a result, the bride price given by the man's family when his next job came was not enough to make up for the deficit of the woman's family. After the man left, the woman's mother burst into tears. Thinking that there are hundreds of thousands of debts to pay, I have no mind to prepare my daughter's wedding.

I thought that if I gave the car, the rich family would definitely double the bride price. I didn't expect that because of vanity, the family was heavily in debt.

The farce of bride price is endless, the most important thing is a news I saw on the Internet: a boy named Sun has been in love with a girl for many years, but when it comes to marriage, the woman's mother wants a bride price of 6.5438+0.5 million yuan, or she will be taken away and not allowed to be together. But the boy who made money by delivering gas in the county town can't afford so much money now. After many arguments with the woman's mother, the boy finally lost his mind and took out a dagger and stabbed the girl's mother, who died of excessive blood loss. ...

Then the boy stabbed his fiancee with a knife and drank a highly toxic pesticide himself.

A happy event turned into a tragedy because of the bride price problem. Why do we equate our own value with money? How much money means how much you love? But how many rich people in life are divorced because of emotional breakdown? If you pay less, you don't love and don't value it? What is a little care in life in front of money?

Do I have to pay the bride price and dowry at home? As an adult, shouldn't you bear it yourself? Take bride price and dowry as a reward for parents' kindness.

Marriage means that two people have to share family responsibilities. Bride price and dowry are only the first test in marriage. If this should belong to two people, it can't be solved in a good way. You dare to support each other in the face of diseases and disasters in the future!

Life is not without two examples of preparing their own bride price and dowry. The two understand their parents' hard work and don't want their parents to worry about themselves in their later years. Work hard, save money to buy a house and a car, and prepare bride price and dowry for both parents. Two people are happily planning their wedding. The family is happy!

May you and I both be part of our own bride price dowry!