When people ask you "your surname", which surnames are polite, needless to say?

Confucian etiquette pays attention to modesty and courtesy. When we first meet, we often ask people's surnames like this: What's your surname? The polite answer is: no surname X. "Free of charge" means that you are modest and equal to others, so you don't need it. However, there are three surnames in the history of China. If you say "free of charge", you will not only be laughed at for being rude and rude, but even get yourself killed! Let's popularize social etiquette.

First: Zhang surname. Why is Zhang so special? Why is it superior? The reason is actually very simple, because the jade emperor's surname is Zhang! The Jade Emperor is the master of heaven and earth in Taoist myths and legends. Of course, you don't have to be "free" just because Hotan has the same surname. Therefore, when someone asks your name, Zhang must not say "free of charge", which is disrespectful to heaven and earth!

Second: of course, it is the surname of the emperor in the dynasty. The honorific titles of the Jade Emperor are all sealed by the emperor, which shows the authority and dignity of the holy family today. Therefore, it would be a great honor to give you a country name in ancient times. Therefore, in ancient times, if you had the same surname as the emperor, people asked you never to say "exemption from service", but if you dared to say that the emperor's surname was not honorable, you would be killed.

Third: Kong surname. Everyone should have guessed this, because isn't Confucius surnamed Kong? Since the Han Dynasty, rulers have regarded respecting Confucius as a means of ruling thoughts, so the surname of Confucius is a very noble surname in history, and Confucius is the most polite, and ancient society is also very polite. If it is disrespectful to Confucius, it is an insult to all the most sacred teachers in ancient times, which is a very rude performance of ancient society.