The blind date man is very angry with the "older woman" You are so excellent. Why can't you get married at 34? what do you think?

I would rather marry a second married woman than an older woman, because there are no good women among older women! Last week, 32-year-old Ayong said this to me.

Ayong said that because he is not young, the so-called men should get married and women should get married, so he is still single at the age of 32, which naturally becomes the most worrying object for his family, and he introduced many blind date objects to him.

But even though he has dated many women, he doesn't like any of them. It's not that his eyes are too high, but that he is annoying everywhere, because women of his age don't like him at all, either because he earns less money or because his family is poor and his house is small.

Ayong said, in fact, these women abandon, he also has self-knowledge, also know that their conditions are really very general, but what he can't accept most is that those women who are inferior to him in all aspects are also abandoning and mocking him everywhere.

Last week, Ayong had a blind date with a woman. This woman was introduced by a friend. She is two years older than Ayong. She is a 34-year-old standard older woman. After the other party introduced his basic situation, Ayong actually thought the other party was good. Although the woman is not as good as him in all aspects, he can still accept it. After all, he is not young, and it is time to get married.

But when Ayong finished her basic situation, the woman's face changed greatly, and she told Ayong directly, "Let's not waste time, because a mediocre person like you can't give me the life I want, so don't think about it, we can't do it at all. I want a man with an annual salary of at least 500 thousand, a house and a car, and a height of not less than 180cm, which is especially good for me. Otherwise it would be good for me.

It was that woman who made the blind date man Ayong angry, so he directly angered the older woman: "You are so excellent, why don't you get married at the age of 34?" !

Ayong thought this sentence could make the old woman speechless, but she didn't know that this woman was not embarrassed at all. She also said to Ayong, "It's not that I can't get married, but that I don't want to get married. In this age of more men and fewer women, women are not worried about getting married at all. On the contrary, an incompetent man like you can't get a wife at all. "

It was after listening to the woman's words that Ah's courage was broken and he left angrily. So later, Ayong said, "I would rather marry a second married woman than a woman older than me." . Ayong said that, in his opinion, there are no good women left over by older women, because they are either money worshippers or sick, otherwise, in this age of more men and fewer women, they would have married off long ago.

Bian Xiao has something to say:

In my opinion, I think there is something wrong with Ayong's statement. Not all old women are not good women, but Ayong has never met a good woman herself. By my side, most older women are actually very good. They become older women, not because they worship money, nor because they have problems, but because they are particularly persistent in love and have never met anyone who wants to marry.

Of course, some things Ayong said are true. If she is really good enough, she won't get married at the age of 34. She has never been married, not because she doesn't want to marry herself, but because her ability is not as good as her ambition, so she will become an older woman.

In addition, women are not worried about getting married. For most ordinary women, they are also worried about getting married. Age is their greatest asset. Once you pass a suitable age, your charm will become smaller and smaller, and you will naturally worry about getting married. Of course, those excellent women are excluded, because age has never been their greatest capital, and even after age, they still have something to be proud of.

A woman once asked me, "How can a woman marry the best man if she is only good-looking?" .

I replied to her: "A woman who wants to marry the best man and have a high-quality life that she can't achieve, if the conditions are average, her personality and ability have no advantages, but she looks a little better, it is actually wishful thinking."

In my opinion, the best love and marriage must be evenly matched and evenly matched. Any high-altitude, compassionate love, the final result is doomed to be a tragedy, because the gap will make the love distance between the two sides farther and farther.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu's Fortress Besieged is so suitable for women to have a look:

In the field of mate selection, there is an unwritten but interesting rule: the person a person likes most and remembers most is often the one he/she doesn't deserve. In fact, there are not so many goddesses, but those who are not worthy of their looks, education, ability, family background and social status;

A person's ultimate companion is often the best person in his optional range. Any long-term relationship is an exact match after the values are sorted.

Although there are more men than women in this society, there is actually not much difference between the number of single men and single women, because men are easier to get married than women, and their range of mate selection is wider, because men usually accept "marrying down", and women in cities can marry those poor foreign women. Anyway, as long as they want to get married, it is not a problem.

But for women, most of them will only choose to "marry" and only choose men who are far better than her. Most of them simply look down on men who are almost or even worse than her, so their range of mate selection is very small, and it will naturally be much more difficult to get married.

Finally, I hope women can understand that although you don't have to marry him, a man doesn't have to marry you, and his range of mate selection is not small, so it is particularly important for women to recognize themselves. Otherwise, it is harmful to others and yourself.