Can mom change clothes in front of the children?

Maybe when you become a parent, you will know that in the process of getting along with your children, there will always be many questions that make you speechless, because they don't know anything about the world yet, but only know something through their parents' education or self-awareness. Under such circumstances, they sometimes send out a hundred thousand questions about why, and some make their parents embarrassed. However, this kind of behavior is mostly related to parents' own behavior.

When chatting with my best friend before, she said that her son said something to himself a few days ago, which made him embarrassed, and then she realized how terrible her usual behavior was. It turned out that she was just changing clothes that day and didn't notice the children nearby, or even if the children she noticed were nearby, she felt that the children were still young and didn't understand or hide anything. But at this time, the three-year-old child suddenly said to his mother, "Mom's breasts are different from the baby's, but they are bigger." After listening to this sentence, my girlfriend was embarrassed and even wanted to reprimand the child, only then did she realize how inappropriate it was to change clothes in front of the child.

Everyone may encounter this kind of embarrassing thing, except changing clothes. For example, sometimes children may ask them to go to the toilet to take a bath, which also implies that most parents do not pay attention to their behavior in daily life, but only think about their children. In fact, some psychologists have shown that children can clearly distinguish the differences between boys and girls when they are about three years old, and they will also realize the differences between them. If parents don't pay attention to their behavior at this time, it may have a bad influence on their children and make them have such problems.

Children may imitate their mother's behavior.

Imagine, but if you often watch a person casually change clothes, then you may have a good imitation yourself. However, for children, they have been exposed to different people since childhood. In this process, they are still fragile and can't judge whether they are facing good people or bad people. If it is used by bad people, it may have a sad result for parents. Therefore, in daily life, we must give our children a good demonstration to make them realize that their bodies cannot be exposed.

Make children precocious.

We all know that if children see some bad movies or some unacceptable pictures, it will stimulate their brains. For children, some behaviors of parents, such as the pictures they see, have a great influence. Simply exposing your body may sometimes make your body different, and if it is serious, it will make your child precocious.

A twisted mind

Before children have a correct understanding of anything in this world, they are very curious about everything they see, just like changing clothes. If they don't hear clearly, or are interested in what they have seen and heard, they may have some obscene behaviors, such as peeking. Before, a treasure mother said that the child had such behavior, and she was afraid. This is the result of Bao Ma's inattention and distorted mind.

Do you dare to continue like this in your daily life?

Personally, I feel bad. When babies grow up day by day, parents should not only educate them about life and all kinds of academic knowledge. However, for a particularly obscure topic that parents avoid talking about, that is sex. Because China people are still conservative and shy about sex, they have neglected these topics of children since childhood. What's more, many parents like to change clothes in front of their children and give them to young children without paying attention to details.

As children grow up bit by bit, their understanding of sex is constantly being discovered and understood. At the age of three, they already knew the difference between men and women. If they often change clothes in front of their children, they will have a wrong understanding of sex. When they grow up and need a correct understanding of sex, this experience will have a certain impact on them.

Generally speaking, parents will turn a blind eye to sex. If children often see their parents changing clothes, it will make them curious and delusional, and it is easy to understand sex through bad channels, so they will have a serious misunderstanding about sex. If the baby is found to be particularly curious about sex, parents should never panic, yell at the child loudly and blame the child, which will cast a great shadow on the child's heart. Instead, we should do correct sex education for children, don't let them go astray, and master it as a kind of learning and knowledge.

It's best not to change clothes in front of the children. I am absolutely opposed to this. When my children were young, I always went to the toilet to change clothes, and so did my family. If she sees her, she will imitate. I told her from an early age that it is impolite not to watch others change clothes, and also told her that you can't change clothes in front of us. If we see you, we will laugh at you. Also told her that the place where we wear clothes must not be shown to others or touched by others. Children do very well in this respect. We adults think it doesn't matter to change clothes in front of children, and children will think it doesn't matter, so we can just take off our clothes on any occasion. We adults should set a correct example and tell her why not. Adults should guide their children correctly.

It is not good for mothers to change clothes in front of boys, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children. Girls can.

It must be wrong to change clothes in front of the children.

Some treasure moms think that they don't have to avoid having a baby, so they don't avoid having a baby when they take a shower or change clothes, which leads children to ask questions when they see something they don't understand, and the mother's ambiguity will pass, which will lead children to be more curious and want to know what it is.

Mothers think that dad can't take care of the children, so just let the children stay with him all the time. But they don't know that changing clothes in front of children is a wrong example of children's sex education, which will lead to children's psychological precocity and bury hidden dangers for their mental health.

First, produce false cognition.

There was a news that a little girl lived with her mother since she was a child. When her mother changes clothes, she never avoids the children. It is normal for children to change clothes in front of others. By the time the child 12 years old. Go camping with classmates and undress directly in front of three boys.

All three boys have entered the age of youth and agitation, and the result of things can be imagined. Except one boy who was too nervous to try something, the other two were sent to juvie, which directly led to the destruction of the lives of the three children.

Is it the fault of these three children? No, it was the mother who undressed directly in front of the children. If she doesn't take off her clothes in front of the children, how can the little girl think it is normal to be "honest" with others?

We should always tell our children that we all have secret parts of our bodies that we can't show to others!

Second, psychological precocity.

I mentioned this just now. Changing clothes in front of children will lead to precocious mental development, which is not good for children.

Generally, children are keen on gender topics after the age of 3, and they will ask their parents something, such as "How did I come?" . Adult teachers hold the mentality that children naturally know when they grow up, but they don't know that this will keep children in a state of increasing anxiety and curiosity, and also lead to puppy love and early pregnancy.

If the mother changes clothes in front of the child, the child will be curious and ask why. If the child can't get the correct guidance from his mother, he will choose to find the answer himself in his later life. Improper methods in children's exploration will lead to something out of line and may even violate the law.

Three years old is a watershed in children's sex education. If the parents take a shower and change clothes together after the child is three years old, it will lead to the misunderstanding of the child.

Although changing clothes in front of children seems trivial, it is actually of great significance to children's sex education. Thousands of miles away, destroyed by an ant colony, parents must set an example to let their children have a correct understanding of the gender gap and avoid making shocking stupid things in their later lives.

Personally feel bad!

It is harmless to change clothes in front of children before they are two or three years old and have no gender awareness.

But when children are conscious and can say many personal sensory words, once they change clothes in front of them, they may go out and say something inappropriate. If you happen to meet an acquaintance, it will be embarrassing for your parents to be fine.

I think it depends on gender. If it's a boy, the mother shouldn't change clothes in front of the child, but if it's a girl, it doesn't matter. On the contrary, dad had better not change clothes in front of the baby girl. Don't dangle around in front of children in your underwear, it will have a bad influence on children.

No matter whether it is a girl or a boy, a mother should not change clothes in front of her children. It is impolite to change clothes in front of them. Children are curious and like to imitate learning, which is not good for their growth!

If it's a boy, it's definitely impossible. I always go to the bathroom or close the door in my room. If it's a girl, I don't think it matters.