My boyfriend broke up and laughed at me.

Boyfriend quarrels with you and always belittles you. At this time, I suggest you break up with him, because we can suspect each other in PUA. What you fear most in your relationship is meeting such a person. They just make you fall into self-doubt and self-denial, and make you feel lucky to have such a boyfriend.

First, we must break up with each other.

Have you ever heard of the word PUA? In fact, in feelings, you can often encounter such a situation, they belittle each other. However, PUA does great harm to a person. It will make you self-doubt and self-denial, and it will make you afraid of socializing. Your privacy can't be guaranteed. If you meet such a person, you must stay away. Boyfriend quarrels with you and always belittles you. At this point, I suggest you break up with the other party, because Bian Xiao seriously suspects that the other party is in PUA.

Second, they use this demeaning way to achieve their own goals.

In any case, quarreling can't always belittle each other. Since you chose to be with me, why deny your choice? You can only say that you want to achieve your goal in this way. I hope girls can be rational in their feelings, don't always listen to each other's language, and have a correct understanding of themselves. Break up when it's time to break up. There is no need to let yourself listen to these meaningless languages.

I didn't polish my eyes the next time I fell in love. If I really meet such a person, I have to consider whether I have any problems, because they must have certain requirements for finding someone to start with. You can be brainwashed, you can doubt yourself, you can deny yourself. We must stay away from this terrible person, and at the same time, we must constantly improve ourselves and learn more relevant knowledge, so as to protect ourselves well.