After ten years of marriage, should I divorce?

Personally, I suggest a divorce, because I met the same thing as you. Although it was painful, I had to do it.

I just went through a whole process, ten years of marriage, children and divorce. The illusion of love, casual discovery, complicated mood and so on will not be said. Talk about the general and current state.

The object of cheating is her first love. In fact, I understand very well that a responsible man can't accept such a thing. It turned out to be a joke when you found that your hard-working family was in love. The first thing that comes to mind must be divorce and anger.

After all, having children, I chose to forgive at first. If you are a responsible man, it is very painful to be mentally prepared before choosing to forgive. The end result is that the pain accumulated in the heart will break out because of a small matter, and divorce is a matter of time.

Also, because of having children, we can't break contact after divorce. The feelings of this decade, without love, will also have deep affection. In my heart, she is still my relative, and caring for her is indispensable.

Now because of the divorce, my heart is not calm. Those who want a divorce can also seriously think about what we really need. I often think about it, but it seems that my cognition is often biased and I don't know what I want.

Ending a ten-year marriage is obviously much more difficult than falling in love and breaking up. Because of age and family, you can't start a new relationship right away and find new spiritual sustenance to transfer this pain. At the same time, previous experience will make you cautious.

Always be cautious about possible feelings.

So, although I am divorced, I know I should be divorced, but I am not at ease and still suffering.