Expose too much and you lose.

Okay, back to the topic, yes, I just want to say, don’t expose yourself in front of others easily. If you expose yourself too much, you will lose.

Everyone has two sides, one for others to see and one for himself. If we are too obsessed with what others see, we will lose ourselves. On the contrary, if we are too eager to let others see the real self, we will just lower our worth. Only with reasonable grasp can you do what you want to do without losing your original intention.

When chatting with new friends, I don’t know what to talk about, but I want to leave a good impression on them. Therefore, many people will exchange secrets. For example, something happened to me before, which had a great impact on me. Another example is, in fact, I am not as happy as you see. Life is always very helpless. The two people who originally wanted to get closer through chatting became even more estranged because they knew too much and felt that there was no communication.

When you like someone, you always want to show them how good you are. So there is chicken soup for the soul, being considerate, playing hard to get, etc. In fact, it is not necessary, it will only make the other party think you are very casual. You just need to relax and get along with him, let him see you as a normal person, and express your emotions appropriately. If he likes you, it's not too late to show your true side at that time. If he doesn't like you, it's not too late. As for meeting embarrassment syndrome, after all, feelings cannot be forced.

Don’t say too much until you are sure that the other person really understands you and is willing to treat you sincerely. Because he doesn’t understand, when you pretend to talk in a relaxed manner, he will think you are really relaxed; because he doesn’t understand, when you think you will be comforted, you find that there is no word; because he doesn’t understand, he thinks you are really relaxed. When you decide to hide everything, he tells your secret as a joke.

Sincerity has value only when the person listening understands it. Therefore, don’t try to impress someone who doesn’t understand you, as that will make your sincerity cheap. When you are misunderstood, don't explain. If he understands you, there is no need to explain. If he doesn't understand you, why should you explain?

If you understand someone completely, you will feel distressed. He will feel sorry for your grievances, your bravery, your pressure, your temper, your tolerance, even your arrogance, your poisonous tongue, and your lies. And at that moment, you can realize that it really can't be represented by just "Oh, so that's it."

Generally speaking, things delivered to your door won’t attract much attention. Isn’t there a saying that “what you can’t get is the best”? The same is true for people. When he is not sure that he wants to fully understand your past, you can only live in the present. Revealing old scores in front of him now is like hurting yourself so that he can laugh at you.

I just like cold fireworks, so what if the temperature is low? Even if I only need 60 degrees to burn, I believe you won't be at that 60 degrees. But once I get it going, I can compete with any other fireworks. The most important thing is that I burn myself without leaving any trace, it is non-toxic and harmless, and my presence does not cause any trouble.

Every cold firework is waiting for her 60 degrees. The temperature is not high, but it is enough to ignite all the romance and tenderness.