Those things you once thought you understood, but in the end, they turned out to be a joke

I went to elementary school and middle school in the village, and I didn't have much contact with the outside world. Many novel things were always a few steps behind others. Over time, I developed a good habit - listening.

?But this is not the point. What I want to express is that the past was stagnant and the information was lagging behind. When the impact of today's society is brought to me, I can only slow down a few beats. response. Why do you say this? There is a saying that youth is capital. In fact, it makes sense. Young brains are more flexible. If you use them well, you will think about things more often in the future. And I have missed that best period.

?I didn’t care about these at first, until I discovered something I didn’t want to encounter.

?Personally, I value friendship more, so I treat my friends even to death. One day, friend A fell out of love and said, "I don't know why it happened like this." I comforted him, and he slowly calmed down and began to keep counting the tender feelings they had in the past. For the sake of friendship, I play the role of a loyal listener.

?I continued to enlighten him over the next few days, and he mentioned his ex-girlfriend less and less. Because of this incident, our friendship has moved forward a little bit. Occasionally, I can go out to walk around the campus and chat about the mountains. However, later, because of this incident, the boat of our friendship completely capsized, and there was no wave to revive it.

?At that time, I didn’t know why his emotional injury healed so quickly. Now I understand that he had changed his target. Unfortunately, I was the victim.

?I won’t talk about the cruel ways of rejection later. Thinking about it afterwards, I feel that I did too much.

?Whether it is a male or female friend, my friendliness towards them will not be much different, but the way may be different. So what did I do wrong to produce such a bizarre result? I have been reviewing and learning.

?What you once thought you understood was just your own idea. You wholeheartedly thought that was the way to treat friendship, but the people next to you had different ideas.

?Your method can only be used on bombs that cannot be ignited. Once it detonates, you not only have to clean up the scene, but also others, and your hard-won friendship.