Why do most relationships end because of a little thing in life?

Marriage is like picking dirt with a needle, and failure is like pushing sand with water. ?

Creating a family business by a couple is as difficult and slow as picking dirt with a needle, but destroying a family business is as fast and easy as washing sand with big waves.

In fact, the same is true of a relationship.

From strangers to encounters, from knowing each other to cherishing each other, from walking into the red carpet together to establishing a family business, we all need to pay a lot of sincerity to treat each other.

How many emotional experiences can get today's mutual affection.

What can ruin and end a relationship is probably just a trivial matter, which may be even smaller than a trivial matter and ruin all efforts.

0 1: insincere words may be the beginning of disaster.

When I was a child, my neighbor boy Zhang Dage and Li Xinxin (a pseudonym) in the same village were primary school classmates.

Although one lives at the head of the village and the other at the end of the village, they are primary school classmates and don't often meet each other because of their work in the countryside.

But when they grow up, they will introduce each other and get married naturally soon, giving everyone the feeling that they know everything. From falling in love to unveiling the red veil, it can be said that it is a flash marriage.

That year, Li Xinxin went out to work after graduating from junior high school. Later, she went home after working outside for two or three years, and a matchmaker introduced her to her neighbor Zhang Dage.

So, they held a wedding and invited the whole village to drink their wedding banquet.

After marriage, they began to work together. Later, after Li Xinxin had a daughter, she returned to the village and became a housewife.

At this time, Zhang Dage ended his working career in order to give his lover Li Xinxin a stable home. With the money saved in those years, he rented a facade shop and started a hardware business.

During the period of 10, it can be said that their marriage is happy and their business is very prosperous. On the bright side, they keep giving birth to a second child, building villas, widening front shops, etc., which is the object of all villagers' thumbs-up when they talk about them.

Maybe, maybe this marriage and that family business have been established, which is too smooth.

Perhaps it was Zhang Dage who began to drift away, or his original sensitive and suspicious heart. After living a good life, I lost my former caution, or something else, because my career went to a stable period. ......

In short, Zhang Dage, in his social circle, will always say something insincere to his former brother from time to time.

Some of his intimate friends will not care too much about him for the sake of his prosperous economy.

And some friends?

He will also treat him like others and make endless jokes. There are too many such jokes, and Zhang Dage, who is sensitive and suspicious, sometimes really believes it.

Such a thriving family, let no one think, because some insincere jokes, but finally fell apart.

02: Other people's jokes

That day, Zhang Dage was on his brother's wine table. At first, it seems that Brother Zhang played a joke on others first. One of his friends, A, hasn't liked him for a long time, just Doby.

Say:

Zhang Dage's two children are not like him. Is it because my sister-in-law has cuckolded him outside? ?

In fact, in the world of men, in Zhang Dage's so-called social circle, these vulgar ridicules are common, and Zhang Dage sometimes ridicules others like this.

Perhaps it is because others are jealous of his business; Perhaps it is because Zhang Dage likes to tease others in this way, and others only respond to him in his way, but because of the disorderly teasing out of nothing.

Sensitive and suspicious Zhang Dage began to have doubts about his wife.

Even later, he asked his wife to take two children to do paternity test with him.

No woman can stand such unreasonable demands, so Li Xinxin and Zhang Dage divorced.

They play, make to the court, Zhang Dage and his wife Li Xinxin swear:

No matter whether you are divorced or not, you must know whether the child is your own. It is also said that if the paternity test results come out and the child is his, you can compensate your wife1100,000. ?

At this point, his wife Li Xinxin felt that her husband was too overbearing and hurtful.

In his mind, the couple who have been married for decades are just a drunken joke of others, and she has lost her face by making such a big noise.

So ... The wife also agreed to do paternity test, and the condition for agreeing to do paternity test is that she must divorce Zhang Dage.

Zhang Dage, who is suspicious, would rather risk the noise of divorce and take his two children for paternity test.

Later, the appraisal results came out. At the moment when the appraisal results were opened, Zhang Dage had some regrets.

He said:

He doesn't want to see the result. He knew what the result was without looking. He said the baby must be his own. He knows this very well and just wants to prove it to the insiders. ?

See here, really speechless!

The arrow has been shot, there is no reason to withdraw the bow. His wife, Li Xinxin, was so sad that she insisted that her husband, Zhang Dage, personally open it. The paternity test between him and his two children proved her innocence.

At the strong request of his wife Li Xinxin, Zhang Dage personally opened it. The result of the appraisal is the same as the answer he saw and what he thought. Both children are his own flesh and blood.

This time he began to tease his wife Li Xinxin, saying:

Divorce is ok, but the compensation signed before1000000 is not, because he doesn't have that much money! ?

Hey!

What is this? A good family, teased by other people's words, has fallen apart for so many years.

03: Conclusion

The story of Zhang Dage and Li Xinxin is wonderful.

Although the primary school students were all in the same village when they were young, they didn't have much contact, but the parents of both sides still knew something about their children's personality and did not exist. They had an affair before they got married.

After the marriage, Zhang Dage also knew something about his wife. Sadly, because Zhang Dage likes to play some borderless jokes in front of his friends.

He can't stand being teased by others in the same way. Is it true?/You don't say. You can't live if you commit a crime? This sentence.

Just kidding, in order to earn back face, so exciting, regardless of his wife's face, the purpose is to save his so-called man's dignity.

But in the end, how much face can you get back if your family breaks up and reneges?

Ridiculous, alas!

What a happy family it should be, because of this, an irrelevant joke, ruined, let people sigh!