Huang Guangsheng in my eyes

Zhou said that all good friendships are formed naturally, not deliberately. We all have an intuition that when we meet someone for the first time, as soon as we speak, we will soon feel whether we hit it off.

So is my acquaintance with Huang Guangsheng. I hit it off as soon as I joined Xiangquan Run.

People can judge by their appearance. Character is written on the face, engraved in the eyes, emotional ups and downs revealed in the voice, and education depends on manners. Simple and honest appearance, gentle face, good-natured, friendly, not talking also gives people a feeling of smiling. This is his first impression of me.

His love and persistence in running is an example for runners. One or two cards a day, running about 300 kilometers a month and 4000 kilometers a year, is his daily life since running. Whenever everyone slacks off, watching him play cards in the group will be inspired to fight and catch up.

His progress and achievements in running are also obvious to all. From the first six assignments to running half a horse for 99 minutes easily, in June 2020, he also participated in the Yangtze River 100 km 50 km group race and won the ninth place. For a 50-year-old, it's really inspiring.

Running has long been a happy and indispensable part of his daily life. If you don't run for a day, you will feel lost. If you don't run for two days, you will feel uncomfortable all over. If you don't run for three days, you may not be able to. This is not only a mechanical repetition, but also a prescribed ceremony. Running on the road is a natural requirement of the body, just like being hungry and needing food.

This is his spiritual need, a little spiritual sustenance in noisy secular things, and a self-disciplined advanced lifestyle.

His sunshine team is a landscape on the road for many years, a benchmark for organizing a group, an inspirational model, a winner of the first 10 prize and team competition in Ma Xian, and a frequent visitor to voluntary blood donation. The friendship and affection between the members of the squad is an iron "war friendship" forged with sweat.

He is kind, helpful and generous. After knowing that I made clothes, I immediately helped me publicize them in the unit and brought my colleagues to buy clothes. Pay attention to profits when doing business. At that time, my business was booming. I thought I didn't have to worry about business every day. So, I don't know if it's good or bad. I'm a little stubborn. I don't let go of the discount. I don't know if he will lose face in front of his colleagues. I felt a little ashamed after knowing it, and I didn't know how to explain it, but he didn't show any concern and treated me as always.

A few things happened, let me see his generosity and tolerance again. Once, I played a joke in the group and made him unable to get off the stage. Another time, I sent a screenshot of our private chat about whether to join a dead runner to a circle of friends. At that time, I just wanted to show that the reason why I couldn't go was because I didn't have an appointment, but I didn't think it would embarrass him. My closest friend reminded me that it was inappropriate, so I quickly deleted it. Although I know I was wrong, I don't have the courage to apologize to him. I was a little embarrassed when I met him again, but he didn't blame me and alienated me.

I have known him for several years, and his integrity and justice have been unanimously affirmed by all runners. He has his own coordinate system to understand things, his own attitude and position in life, and he doesn't follow the trend. When he is asked to give advice on anything, he will express his views frankly and will not prevaricate. Dare to speak out when encountering injustice, not afraid of power, not muddling along, not helping others.

What is true high emotional intelligence? What I understand is not tactfulness, sophistication, but integrity, kindness, sincerity and generosity deep in my bones.

The loved one is back, and the blessed one is back.

All this can be annotated from his life experience.

/kloc-joined the work at the age of 0/6, and was rated as an advanced unit every year; Is the only temporary worker in the unit to become a full member; Junior high school education self-taught undergraduate diploma, becoming a deputy-level cadre in the accounting department of the unit; Amateur billiards for three years, 1992 Xianning won the first prize in the first staff billiards competition; Amateur table tennis, 20 10, representing Hubei Province in the national financial system competition in Hebei Province; Learning to grow flowers can rival professional gardeners; Cooking is a chef's skill. . .

No matter what he chooses to do, he will finish the work he started and make some achievements. Where he is, it is always sunny, which makes people feel positive energy and warmth. Just like his screen name-"Sunshine"!

What he said most was gratitude, gratitude for fate, gratitude for opportunities, gratitude for many people who helped him, gratitude for his struggle and growth all the way, and gratitude for life.

Aggressive, firm and generous, he has the most valuable qualities of a man. Unrestrained enterprising, inner persistence, unpretentious generosity. This is the Huang Guangsheng I know.