How to show your sense of humor when chatting with girls?

There is an eternal law when it comes to chasing girls: when a girl is comfortable and happy with you, then she will have the urge to be with you.

If boys want to do this, showing a sense of humor is the most important point.

In the real process of chasing girls, many boys know that they need to show a sense of humor, but they are often powerless and cannot do this.

Some boys will search for some jokes on the Internet and then tell them to girls. This method is relatively stupid. In fact, in love science, there are more clever ways to show humor.

What girls want is emotional satisfaction, not how funny the chat content is.

Many boys think that telling jokes is an effective way to show their sense of humor. In fact, when you actually use it, you will find that telling jokes to girls is embarrassing. Moreover, this It’s not a long-term solution either, you can’t tell girls jokes all the time.

Telling jokes is based on some humorous points in the chat content, which can make girls laugh, but this method is ineffective and its effectiveness is very short-lived.

The real sense of humor is: when a girl is with you, her mood will naturally be in a happy state, and this mood will remain for a long time.

In fact, the reason is very simple. For example, every time we watch a funny comedy movie, you will always remember that the movie is funny, and the plot of the movie will soon be remembered by us. forgotten.

So, when chasing girls, boys should remember not to keep looking for laughs in order to show their sense of humor. This method is ineffective. What you need to do is: find a way to create a happy ending for girls. A happy environment satisfies her emotions.

Use "emotional transmission" to bring a happy atmosphere to girls.

If you get along with a pessimistic person, your mentality will also become pessimistic; when you get along with a very cheerful person, your mood will also become very good.

So, if you want a girl to have a happy mood when she is with you, first of all, you have to make yourself have a happy mood. In this way, when a girl gets along with you, her Only then will your emotions be satisfied and your sense of humor felt.

When a girl feels the emotions you bring to her, no matter what you say, the girl will be very happy. This is the most effective method.

One thing to remember: a woman is a perceptual creature. If she feels very comfortable when you get along with her, then she will always remember this feeling, and this feeling will gradually develop. Form a good feeling.

If boys let themselves go enough, they can make themselves happy enough and influence girls' emotions.

In the process of getting along with girls, boys should be open enough to open themselves up, and they will naturally form a "happy mentality".

So, how to do it? We can reflect from the following three aspects.

Does your happy state come from your heart?

When getting along with girls, do you often struggle and worry about many things? If so, then you cannot be truly happy.

Have you been true to yourself, or have you been pretending?

When chasing girls, only by being your true self can girls feel your charm. Don’t deliberately cater to girls or over-disguise yourself.

Are you open enough about yourself, or are you always aiming to win the approval of girls?

When a boy is open enough about himself, not too restrained, and even able to entertain himself, it is also a very good state.

When boys open themselves up, they can attract girls more effectively.

Boys’ sense of humor is mainly reflected in two aspects: language and behavior.

Language is not about telling jokes. As we have said above, what boys need to do is: chat with girls in a more casual and relaxed tone.

You can chat with a girl as a very good friend without too many restrictions. This kind of chat will not only be relaxed, but also more effective.

Give me an example.

Girl: I just read a book for two hours and my waist is so tired.

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Boys who are too restrained: ?Hurry up and take a break! ?

A more open-minded boy: ?Come on, do it with me, stand up, do three circles on the left and three on the right, and start moving. ?

Don’t make the chat atmosphere too serious. Casual chat will make people more comfortable.

In addition, when getting along with girls, boys should pay attention not to be too restrained in their movements and try to relax themselves.

In addition to paying more attention to avoid some childish actions, other things should be natural. How do you usually get along with others? Try to be in that state.