"My wife earns 3,000 yuan a month and spends 2,000 yuan to eat crayfish" was scolded by the group. What do you think of this?

Introduction: Marriage is mutual support between two people, not "helping the poor". Therefore, don't think about your low standard of living before marriage, but ask the other party and the other family to give you a high-end standard of living after marriage.

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Speaking of crayfish, the most touching news is that "a wife with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan spent 2,000 yuan on crayfish, which attracted the dissatisfaction of her mother-in-law and her husband."

I can't help but think that crayfish is really the hottest food in summer, and his wife is really a well-deserved "foodie"!

According to the chat record, the young couple not only spent their own money, but even spent their mother-in-law's money.

Last month, my husband asked his mother for 10 thousand yuan. This month, he asked his mother for money and said that he would report it to his children. When the mother-in-law asked, she learned that her daughter-in-law actually earned 3,000 yuan a month, but spent 2,000 yuan on crayfish.

Mother-in-law called her daughter-in-law a loser and stopped living!

The daughter-in-law exposed screenshots of her mother-in-law and her husband's chat records in a circle of friends, saying that she made money and bought whatever she wanted! Frankly speaking, husband and mother-in-law are too stingy, and husband doesn't know how to take care of himself.

However, after reading the news and chat records, netizens said that this is where the mother-in-law is stingy and the husband is not good to himself. Obviously, it is extravagance and waste. Not to mention that you are married. You are not married. You earn 3000 yuan a month, but you spend 2000 yuan on crayfish. You can't support yourself.

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As soon as this news came out, netizens maintained a unanimous opinion that the daughter-in-law really couldn't live.

Not to mention that she bought crayfish, let's say that her mother-in-law gave her 10 thousand yuan last month. Obviously she has helped her, but she still doesn't know how to be grateful. This is too much.

How dare you say that you are spending your own money when you are obviously gnawing at the old? Without the support of her mother-in-law, how could she spend so much money on crayfish?

Sorry, don't say that making money and spending your own money is independence. Can you afford 2000 pieces of crayfish without the support of your mother-in-law?

This is also because you married a good husband and a capable mother-in-law. When ordinary people get married, what can a mother-in-law do for herself? Also, as an adult, are you ashamed to spend the old man's money to eat crayfish?

Netizen Orange said, "I was really surprised when I saw this news. Obviously, I was greedy and finally spit out my mother-in-law and husband. There really is no one. Not to mention you earn 3000 yuan a month to eat crayfish. Obviously, you already have children, and you can confidently spit out your mother-in-law. That's really enough. Have the ability to spend your own money to eat crayfish, see if your meat hurts? "

Through this news, we can also see the money view of ordinary people. You can make your own money, earning 100 thousand a month, and eating 20 thousand crayfish doesn't matter. If you can't make money by yourself and rely on your elders, then what is independence?

What's more, in marriage, you only enjoy rights and don't perform obligations. That's really your fault.

Who gave you courage, saying it was the money you earned and the support of your mother-in-law, remember?

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When I saw the news, I couldn't help thinking of my predecessor. At that time, he earned 4000 a month, and I also earned more than 4000. The wages of two people add up to 3000 yuan in rent, leaving only 5000 yuan. Of course, excluding utilities, car travel, living expenses, social expenses, and occasional illness, there is less than 2000 yuan left.

But he just likes playing games. Every time he reloads, he can spend about 1000 a month. I didn't take it to heart at first, thinking that he was just on a whim. Soon, he lost interest in this matter. Therefore, he still needs to reload, even more than at the beginning.

Later, when I got paid, he could only give me 2000 yuan. I asked him, where is all the money?

He said it was too much to play games carelessly, and it won't happen again.

But I didn't expect him to get worse and worse. After that, he was still well equipped. I asked him, "Why don't you control it?" We still have to live. If I married you, would you still do it? "

He said he wouldn't. He said he would quit the game, but I can't trust him. None of them can control their desires. How can I be with him?

Not only does he spend money, but I will undoubtedly reduce my consumption because of his behavior. I was afraid to buy skirts, clothes and lipsticks, so I took out all my money to make up for his consumption.

Invisibly, because of him, I have reduced my consumption dominance, and there is still no need to spend.

Just like a wife who earns 3000 yuan a month and spends 2000 yuan on crayfish, do you think you just spent a little more money on crayfish? No, because you spend more money at home, you must ask someone to reduce your consumption.

If you spend more than 2000 yuan on yourself, one of your husband and children must spend less than 2000 yuan to make up for unreasonable consumption.

You only eat crayfish, but someone carries the load for you.

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To put it bluntly, it is the other half. The family economy is not rich, but it spends a lot of money and never considers others. It always regards its own needs as the most important, but ignores the family, the other half and the children.

It's not that you spend too much money, but that you are too selfish. There is no one else in your heart, and always put your own needs first. This is the saddest thing.

That's why I broke up with my ex. If he really cares about me, he won't be unable to control his desire to spend money, and he won't consider girls in trivial matters. What can he do in great things?

Speaking of the crayfish incident, I believe that this wife is afraid to eat crayfish for 2000 yuan a month without the support of her mother-in-law. Where is this normal demand? Obviously, it depends on the confidence of the old people. If there is no mother-in-law, it is estimated that eating 200 pieces of crayfish will hurt a person.

As the old saying goes, it is more important to do what you can for a penny!

Since you choose to get married, you must complete the task. Since the economic conditions of both sides are limited, it is necessary to restrain consumption. This is not dedication, but an obligation that a husband and wife must fulfill.

If, after marriage, you don't want to lower your needs, and you are still luxurious and beautiful, regardless of your lover and family, such a person is bound to be shameful.

This is marriage, and this is reality.

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There are single friends to talk about, so getting married will reduce my needs and reduce my consumption. What should I do if I get married?

Actually, it's not. Marriage is for two people to live a happier life, not for one party to pay for the other. You improve your life, but you make the other person suffer. This unequal relationship is doomed to be unsustainable.

If you are not married, when you are single, your income is very high, with a monthly income of one million. It doesn't matter if you eat a hundred thousand crayfish. If you earn 30 thousand crayfish a month, it doesn't matter.

However, if you are single and your income is only 3,000 yuan, do you still need to eat 2,000 crayfish? Do you have the ability to pay?

When you are single, you dare not enjoy the overload of life because you can't afford the overload of consumption.

Then why do you want each other and their families to pay for your enjoyment of life and overload consumption after marriage? What makes you?

Marriage must have responsibilities. Since you choose to get married, you should fulfill your obligations. It's not that getting married reduces your quality of life, but that your quality of life is not high.

This is the cruelest reality. Getting married is a very realistic thing. You must accept that the little wife in the TV series drinks afternoon tea every day. Everyone has thought about this day, but it is really unrealistic.

A real marriage is tea, rice, oil and salt. Faced with these problems, you will consider how much money you want to spend today, how much money you can't exceed this month, and whether there is any extra money to support your trip this year.

Real marriage is definitely not a low quality of life before marriage, but a high quality of life after marriage.

You know, at any time, marriage is a "support", not a "poverty alleviation".

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In fairy tales, both the princess and the prince have servants and maids to take care of their lives after they get married, but in real life, couples really have to face it every day, plan their expenses well, and both men and women have to work hard. Only in this way can they get a better future.

No one can live a good life without doing anything, especially marriage. Don't have unrealistic ideas and do nothing.

Every day is just a beautiful life, only in dreams.

If you want to get married, you should think about your future responsibilities. Only in this way can you live a better life. This is life, and this is a person's responsibility to life and marriage.