In the second-child family, why is there a phenomenon that the boss and the second child compete for favor?

In modern society, in the second-child family, there is a phenomenon that the eldest child and the second child compete for favor. In fact, it is mainly because parents in the second-child family have different attitudes towards these two children. Especially for the boss, the arrival of the second child will seriously affect his position in the whole family. If parents don't pay attention to the boss's mood, it will easily lead to the contradiction between the boss and the second child, so the boss and the second child will compete for favor.

First, the problem of the second-child family With the opening of the second-child policy, many families began to have a second child. Then after birth, it will bring a series of problems to the family, which we collectively call the second child family problem. Among the many problems of the second child family, the most prominent one is that the eldest child often competes with the second child for favor, which also makes many parents have a headache and is difficult to solve.

Second, the reason why the boss and the second son compete for favor. In the second-child family, the reason why the boss and the aging often quarrel is mainly because the sudden arrival of the second child will upset the balance of the original family and threaten the status of the boss. Therefore, the boss will find it a little difficult to accept the arrival of the second child, and even regard the second child as an outsider and try to exclude him from the family. In addition, the reason why the eldest and the second are favored is mainly because parents have different attitudes towards the eldest and the second. In most families with two children, parents always prefer the second child, which leads to dissatisfaction and even jealousy in the boss's heart.

Third, the parents' practices When there is a phenomenon that the eldest child and the second child often compete for favor in the second child family, the parents' practices are particularly important. First of all, as parents, we should try our best to treat the two children of the second-child family with a bowl of water, so as not to affect the psychology of either child. Secondly, we try our best to maintain the attitude and practice of treating every child equally in our daily life and be fair.