Is it necessary to give back the present gift?

Are we particular about China? Courtesy in return? So in daily life, we often give gifts to each other: get married, have children, move to a new home, and celebrate the New Year. However, with the development of the times, returning a gift with a gift has changed a little. Therefore, I think that this courtesy of returning a gift with a gift is no longer necessary.

In the past, people were not very rich, so when relatives and friends had happy events, everyone would give gifts. One was to congratulate their hosts on their happy events, and the other was to help each other. So if there is a happy event in your family, I will follow the ceremony; When there is a happy event in my family, you will return the gift and gradually form the etiquette of reciprocity.

But now, all kinds of gifts sometimes make us very headache. It is often reported in the news that some young people are afraid to go back to their hometown in order to avoid the wedding banquet during the May Day and November holidays. And some young people even eat instant noodles and steamed bread for a whole month because of various gifts. These all sound like jokes, but they are real events. Is it necessary to follow the etiquette and eat bran and swallow vegetables by yourself, so that you are afraid to go back when you have a home? When the ceremony is over, we'll talk about returning the gift. In the past, everyone paid the same return, that is to say, if there is a happy event in my family, you will pay 100 yuan, and if there is a happy event in your family, I will pay 100 yuan. Everyone has nothing to lose. But it's different now. It often happens in life: Xiao Zhang got married early, Xiao Li married 200 yuan, the wedding expenses were 50 yuan/person, and Xiao Li earned 150 yuan. A few years later, Xiao Li got married and prices soared. The cost of the wedding banquet may need 250 yuan/person. If Xiao Zhang also accompanied 200 yuan, then Xiao Li would be 50 yuan less, and Xiao Li would definitely feel uncomfortable. If Xiao Li accompanied 400 yuan, Xiao Zhang earned 150 yuan, but Xiao Li overpaid, which made him feel bad. Therefore, the soaring prices have also led to the unnecessary existence of this kind of courtesy.

Actually, not only do we have. Courtesy in return? Do we have any more? Courtesy is light and affection is heavy? So as long as the mind is here, I think the gift money can be saved.