A casual joke, but my boyfriend is very angry. Is this your fault?

There is no clear distinction between right and wrong. We have to make a concrete analysis of this problem.

First, you have to consider whether your casual jokes hurt people.

Sometimes, in friendship or love, I make a casual joke but make the other person angry. At this time, it's a little strange that the other person gets angry without tolerance. In fact, I should also reflect on whether this joke I casually said hurt each other. Your joke may be a joke to you, but it hurts others, but you don't realize it yourself. For example, sometimes when you say that the other person is fat, you think it's nothing but a joke, but others may think it's a kind of harm to her. Therefore, jokes must be considered. Some of them can be opened and some can't be opened. If it may hurt others' psychology, it can't be opened. If your boyfriend is angry because you played a joke, then it's your fault and you need to apologize to him.

second, you should consider whether your boyfriend is in a bad mood at this time when you are joking.

If he is in a bad mood, he can't get to the point where you are joking at all. When he is in a bad mood, the whole person is very depressed. At this time, a little stimulation may anger him, just like gunpowder. When many people come to him when they are in a bad mood, he will be very angry and loudly say leave me alone! When your boyfriend is in a bad mood, you are likely to face the same situation in a joke. Then this time is not your problem, it is your boyfriend's problem. Because he is in a bad mood, he brings his mood to you, so that you still think you made a mistake.

So a joke you casually said made your boyfriend very angry. It needs to be analyzed in detail. Think about what the situation was at that time and then judge what to do.