Widow grinding bean curd, bachelor washes clothes in the middle of the night. What is it?

Widows always get up in grinding bean curd in the middle of the night. Because there is no labor at home, they can only get up in the middle of the night to grind, because in ancient times, people in grinding bean curd chose to use a stone mill, because people put the soaked soybeans in the water in the stone mill hole, and then they need to push two stone mills to grind the soybeans into bean juice by biting together, and finally they can make tofu. Usually this kind of work is done by men because they are tired, but the widow's family lacks labor.

In fact, this is mainly caused by loneliness, because everyone has desires, which is normal, especially widows who have lost their husbands. Many times, once at night, they would be lonely, but in ancient times, widows had many restrictions. Due to the influence of Confucianism, they all hold high chastity and women, and think it is a shame for widows to remarry, so they basically dare not remarry. Therefore, it is recorded that widows count soybeans when they are lonely at night, and they are very tired before they can sleep. Moreover, some widows even cut off their fingers in order to alleviate the suffering of lovesickness. It can be said that ancient thoughts were particularly cruel to women.

? Bachelor washes clothes in the middle of the night? It is said that bachelors have to get up in the middle of the night to wash clothes because of work needs, but there are no women at home. In fact, this is the same as a widow. Because bachelors are lonely, they can't help killing time by washing clothes. In fact, what is revealed here is the kind behind bachelors and widows? Sexual repression? So from here on, bachelor washing clothes in the middle of the night actually reveals a problem, that is, missing women.

Actually, it's normal, as the saying goes? Food and color? There are also some desires between men and women, so there is another explanation for men to get up in the middle of the night to wash clothes, that is, the man wet dream sleeps, so the clothes here also refer to mundane pants, because men are also eager to have women in their sleep, but they just had a dream in spring, so they have to get up in the middle of the night to wash mundane pants.