What did Wang Xifeng do to make Lin Daiyu hated by Mrs. Wang as soon as she entered Jia's house?

Many readers of A Dream of Red Mansions don't understand: Lin Daiyu was obviously resisted and disgusted by Mrs. Wang when she first entered the government and didn't act as an adult? What the hell is going on? Daiyu is just a child, and no one can rely on her. Mrs. Wang, why bother to embarrass a poor orphan? Today, I will take you to explore and analyze the reasons why Mrs. Wang is unhappy to see Daiyu.

Jia Jia forgot her identity and was annoying.

Read the original passage from Daiyu to Jia's house first: When the maids saw her, they all smiled and said, "The old lady is reading a book and just happened to come." So three or four people scrambled to lift the curtain, and at the same time they heard someone say, "Miss Lin is here."

When Daiyu entered the room, she saw two people holding an old mother with silver hair to meet her. Daiyu knew it was his grandmother, but when she wanted to see him, she was held in her arms and she cried. All the people standing here hid their faces and wept. Daiyu couldn't stop crying. At that time, the people slowly advised them to live, and Daiyu met her grandmother.

In our opinion, this kind of scene is normal. The granddaughter who lost her mother defected all the way. As a grandmother, Jia can imagine her feelings when she thinks of her daughter's granddaughter. Therefore, Jia took the initiative to pick her up, regardless of her seniority.

However, for Guo Rongfu, a family with strict ethics, the move that Jia Mu took the initiative to welcome out was very exaggerated. Grade and seniority are highly valued. Jia is the elder of Daiyu. According to the traditional formal etiquette, it is also the time for Jia to sit in the high hall and wait for Daiyu to come to worship. After the gift is delivered, she will tell her grandmother about her own flesh and blood.

It is rare for Jia family to overreact. In addition to Beijing Princess and South An Gongzhu, there were ladies before. Who can disturb the Jia family to get up and meet them? Even if Aunt Xue's family came to Guo Rongfu later, the grandmother remained as steady as Mount Tai and sat still, or Aunt Xue took the initiative to come and say hello. The old lady only sent a maid to send a message: "Aunt Xue lives here, so that everyone will be closer." At best, just say hello.

Let bygones be bygones, shame and shame "wooden head"

However, the arrival of Daiyu made it difficult for the old lady to restrain her feelings. She ignored etiquette and took the initiative to pick up her granddaughter. This scene reminds Mrs. Wang of the scene when she was unmarried in the government.

How noble and arrogant was Jia Min at that time? He is loved by his grandmother, and he will be questioned by her when sitting or lying down. Everywhere I go, there are stars and moons everywhere, and I am extremely flattering. Mrs. Wang is afraid of poor care and is careful everywhere. Rao is so, she still resents the "shallow responsibility" of her grandmother's poor care.

What kind of sister-in-law is this? Turned out to be half a mother-in-law. Because I don't know words and ink, I don't know much about words, and I don't know much about poetry and songs, so it's difficult to talk to Jia Min. Show your timidity before you speak, so as not to be vulgar and let the big lady snigger. It is good to be unknown. I'm not sure. I made a mistake by talking less, was rejected by my mother-in-law, and claimed to be an unpleasant "wood"

When I was a girl at home, I was a "quick talker" who loved to talk and laugh, although I didn't dare to be rude and ignore the system like Miss Feng. Now I have come to this mansion, but I have become a "wooden head" that my husband doesn't like and my mother-in-law doesn't love. I can't tell you anything and I can't show anything. I want to give my unspeakable sufferings to Buddhist temples and bodhisattvas.

When Mrs. Wang thought of this, she felt a dull pain in her heart-only to see the old lady hug Daiyu and cry sadly, and Mrs. Wang also "took advantage of the situation" and shed tears ...

Xi Feng's concern for Cold Life has increased the hatred in her heart.

In the present situation of Grandmother Jia, Daiyu will be regarded as a treasure in the future. From then on, Baoyu was no longer "outstanding" in the eyes of Grandmother Jia, but "equally divided" with Daiyu. Although Mrs. Wang has self-denial and profound self-restraint, women are women after all. Although a woman can fool others, she can't fool herself.

It turns out that Lady Jia dotes on Daiyu so much that it has already attracted the jealousy and dissatisfaction of Lady Wang. However, Xifeng was too enthusiastic and flattering, adding a layer of jealousy to Mrs. Wang. The original text is as follows:

Xi-feng took Daiyu's hand, looked her up and down carefully, and then sent the old lady to sit down, because she said with a smile, "There are such beautiful people in the world, and I just met them today. And this perfect style is not like the grandson of our ancestors, but actually the granddaughter of our first relative. I can't blame my ancestors for saying it every day, but I don't forget it for a while. I only pity my sister for being so miserable that my aunt is dead. "

With that, he wiped his tears with a handkerchief. Grandmother Jia said with a smile, "I'm fine. You're here to recruit me. Your sister came from a long way and was weak, so you advised her. I didn't say it earlier. " Hearing this, Xi-feng turned grief into joy and said, "Exactly. I was fascinated by my sister as soon as I saw her. I like her and feel sad. I forgot my ancestors. I should fight her. "

She quickly took Daiyu's hand and asked, "How old is my sister? Did you go to school? What medicine are you taking now? Don't be homesick here. Just tell me what you want to eat and what you want. The girls and wives are not well, just tell me. " When you speak, the tea fruit has been set. Xifeng kissed the tea fruit.

Daiyu met her second aunt again and asked him, "Have you used up your monthly money?" ? "The monthly money has also been released," said Xi-feng. I just took someone upstairs to find satin. I searched for it for a long time, but I didn't see what my wife said yesterday. I think my wife made a mistake? "

Mrs. Wang said, "It doesn't matter whether it's there or not." Because he added, "I should have taken out two to cut your sister's clothes." When you think of it at night, ask someone to get it, but don't forget. "

"I expected this first," said Xi-feng. I know that my sister will arrive in these two days, so I am ready to send it when my wife goes back to check. " Mrs. Wang smiled and nodded silently.

Grandmother Jia coldly saw Lady Wang and asked, "The monthly payment is a satin contract again." I was unhappy and thought, "When can I ask such a thing?" This is obviously because I love Miss Lin and feel uncomfortable. Let's change the subject quickly. "

At this time, Mrs. Wang also felt her cheeks burning. Feng asked about satin just now, but there was no satin. It only shows that my "carelessness" and "prepared silks and satins" towards my niece do not exist. On the other hand, Feng Shantou presented this matter to the old lady, which obviously exposed her negligence and she never "examined" it herself.

Mrs. Wang can't help becoming angry from embarrassment, but she doesn't get angry easily. She had to fight back with a smile: "Really? What happened? You should also take out two to make clothes for your sister! "

Even so, Mrs. Wang was angry: this Xifeng doesn't understand my mind and just wants to make the old lady happy. Even without the two jokes I told "before", you can take out two horses to take me around. Any two horses can be regarded as "specially" prepared by me. Why do you have to tear my face here?

Unfortunately, Xifeng didn't really understand Mrs. Wang's meaning, and she was still immersed in the meticulous "care" for Sister Lin.

These two things alone are enough to make Mrs. Wang feel that Daiyu is a "troublemaker". Unexpectedly, even more outrageous things are yet to come-

Daiyu didn't mean to say anything, just because menstruation was taboo.

Grandmother Jia ordered Mrs. Wang and Mrs. Xing to take Daiyu to see her uncle. Mrs. Wang took Daiyu to her home first. The original text is as follows:

Madam Wang said, "Your uncle is fasting today. Goodbye. There is only one thing to tell you: your three sisters are excellent, and you will have room to read, read, learn needlework, and even laugh occasionally. But what worries me most is that there is a curse at home, a devil in the world. I didn't come back because I wanted to go to the temple today. You'll know when you see it at night. You just ignore him in the future. Your sisters dare not touch him. "

Daiyu often heard from her mother that her second aunt had a cousin who was born with jade, was stubborn and abnormal, hated reading very much, loved hanging out at home, and her grandmother loved her so much that no one dared to take care of her. Now that Mrs. Wang said this, she knew that she was talking about this cousin. She smiled apologetically and said, "My aunt is talking about this Yusheng's brother? At home, I often hear my mother say that this brother is one year older than me, and his nickname is Baoyu. Although he is extremely stupid, he is very kind to his sisters. Since I'm here, I'm only with my sisters, and my brothers are from another hospital. Why bother? "

Mrs. Wang is most jealous of her son's reputation of "doing nothing, not loving reading, just hanging around at home" In particular, I don't want to be known by Jia Min, the sister-in-law who presses her head everywhere. As a result, after hearing what Daiyu said, Jia Min not only knew, but also knew quite thoroughly. Mrs Wang's remaining vanity and self-esteem were stripped away in front of Jia Min.

If you don't stop, why do you ask why?

Mrs. Wang concealed her displeasure and explained, "You don't know why. He is different from others. Because of the love of the old lady, he has spoiled with his sisters since childhood. If one day his sisters ignore him, he will be quieter-even if he is bored, he will go out the second door and take it out on two or three children behind his back, and it will be over soon; If the sisters say one more word to him on this day, he will be happy and many things will happen. So I ask you to ignore him. Don't believe him when he is sweet-talking, dull and crazy. "